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May 30th, 2009, 12:56 PM
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May 30th, 2009, 02:07 PM
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Hmmm, do the same rules for deleted posts apply here as they do in the May 08 PR??
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May 30th, 2009, 02:12 PM
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I just wanted thoughts and prayers for a friend and her baby. But she is driving right now to say goodbye to her beautiful baby girl. I was too sad to type out the story so I just deleted it for now.
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May 30th, 2009, 02:27 PM
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I am sorry Sarah for your friend
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May 30th, 2009, 02:54 PM
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Hey Randi! Good to see you here. I feel so bad for her too. I cant stop crying. I dont know what to say. And then me being pregnant makes the whole thing worse. I feel like Im going to lose a friend. I dont blame her though. I dont know if I could handle being friends with a pregnant woman with 3 kids after I just lost my first and only baby.
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May 30th, 2009, 03:53 PM
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I am sorry to ask this but did her baby pass away after birth (how old was the baby?) or was the baby still born? I am sorry for her loss. (((HUGS)))
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I am sorry to ask this but did her baby pass away after birth (how old was the baby?) or was the baby still born? I am sorry for her loss. (((HUGS)))

Ill retype it. Her baby was just still alive when I typed it so I deleted it after she passed.
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May 30th, 2009, 05:13 PM
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Hey Randi! Good to see you here. I feel so bad for her too. I cant stop crying. I dont know what to say. And then me being pregnant makes the whole thing worse. I feel like Im going to lose a friend. I dont blame her though. I dont know if I could handle being friends with a pregnant woman with 3 kids after I just lost my first and only baby.

BIG Hugs, it is so heartbreaking, and definitely hard to be the friend who is pregnant and has babies. she might find it hard to be around you, she might not. I dont know her. I had a friend who had multiple losses, and she was trying IVF when I was pregnant with Jesse. It didnt work, and they stopped trying for awhile. Then I got pregnant with Zach, and things got awkward between us. I tried to act as normal as possible, and tried to talk about ANYTHING but Jesse and being pregnant, but one day she told me that my doing that made it worse, because she felt I was protecting her, and distancing her in doing it. So I did talk about it, but limited. She is now due in July with her first, and I am thrilled for her! So I guess my point is, see what your friend needs. She might need distance from you, and thats okay, it doesnt mean she isnt your friend, it just means she needs space. But she also might need you to just act "normal" if that makes sense. I might even say something in a few weeks about it if you want. But also remember its not about you its about her.

Sorry I babbled on, I hope this makes sense. I am sorry for your friends loss, that is heartbreaking.
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My heart goes out to you, your friend, and her family. That is heartbreaking.
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May 30th, 2009, 07:58 PM
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Oh no! How terrible. No parent should ever, EVER have to dela with losong their baby. I will be praying for them...a lot!
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How sad, my prayers will be with your friend and her family
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my thoughts and prayers are with them, i can't even imagine
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What a heartbreaking and tragic life story. It makes me want to strangle that doctor. I am so very sorry for her loss and your loss as her friend. Things like that just aren't supposed to happen and it angers me so much to know someone has to experience such a loss.
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