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  #1  
January 20th, 2010, 07:48 AM
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If there was anything you could change about your birth, what would it be?
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January 20th, 2010, 07:52 AM
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I would take pictures of me in labor, first time holding baby, baby still dirty and fresh out, Daddy's first time holding baby, baby with the midwives.

Unfortunately, the only people in attendance of the birth were me, Daddy and the midwives, so I didn't have anyone there who could take pictures, which is why we don't have any pictures of those moments. I regret that.
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January 20th, 2010, 07:54 AM
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I would have a doula and someone to do pics/video that wasn't family
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January 20th, 2010, 08:06 AM
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The two main ones are: I would've hired a doula, I wanted to all along but let myself be talked out of it. I also would've waited the full 24 hours after water breaking to go in, I think that would help me feel like I did everything I could to avoid the pitocin.

I agree with the other ladies, someone to take pics would have been nice - we have none of the 3 of us together from the first few days.
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January 20th, 2010, 08:30 AM
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nak......

no epi, no pit, and more pics taken
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January 20th, 2010, 09:56 AM
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With David I would have fought harder for as natural of a birth as possible. I could have worked harder to stay focused during the contractions. It was hard to get comfortable or ina good position because of the mag I was on.

With Katelynn I would have made sure the camera was out and ready. I have pictures of all of David's birth and none of hers until she was out because she came out so fast we didnt have time.

And the major thing I would change in both births would be to have my husband by my side. He was out to sea for both of our kids.
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January 20th, 2010, 10:36 AM
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Move around more, and would have remembered my camera.
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January 20th, 2010, 10:58 AM
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In my eyes my last birth was perfect - I wouldn't change anything. I learned from my prior experiences and had a Doula and birth photographer. It was really fabulous.
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January 20th, 2010, 12:03 PM
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I would have had my mom come in to the OR with me after dh left with dd. It was really scary.

I wish I knew of something I could have done to make the c-section unnecessary, but oh, well! lol
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January 20th, 2010, 12:55 PM
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If we have another one, I'm going to let the baby come in it's own time. With Serenity I naturally induced myself (with help) using pressure points and once everything was said and done I think that she would have probably baked for about another week or so before she decided that she was ready.

We also decided that if we do have another that we aren't going to find out the sex either since we already have one of each. I think that will make it fun and my dad will like that since he never wants to know and then someone always spills the beans.
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January 20th, 2010, 01:57 PM
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I wish I had done a home birth with Lily, but because she was my first I was a little afraid. I'm so excited to do a home birth this time.
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January 20th, 2010, 02:03 PM
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With my last birth (a home birth) I think I would have waited a little longer before calling everyone to come over. My folks and daughter were there within minutes, and it would have been nice to have a little more time with my new baby and no one else.
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January 20th, 2010, 02:55 PM
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I would have listened to my gut feeling. I almost didn't get back in the tub after going to the bathroom the last time, which was about 2 minutes before I started pushing. If I hadn't gone back in we likely would have caught the snapped cord soon enough to keep the blood loss down and we probably wouldn't have ended up at the hospital. Otherwise everything was perfect.
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January 20th, 2010, 04:52 PM
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More photos and an extra set of hands (for clean up, support, etc). I'm fixing that this time and hired a birth photographer (who is also a good friend) and I have my best friend and a doula here along with my m/ws and DH.
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January 20th, 2010, 07:33 PM
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Like everyone else, I would of liked getting more footage of the actual labor (video and pics), we were pretty set on the birth itself. I will have a home birth next time, but had a water birth at a hospital this past time and I don't regret that, and I wish I would have breathed the baby out instead of pushing, which I will do with my next. I LOVED my last birthing experience and doing just those couple of things different I really will have MY perfect birth!!!
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January 21st, 2010, 04:42 AM
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more photos/video as well


no honey sticks- savory food only, with mild flavor.

had dh take a nap that afternoon, b/c he was tired!

get a bigger bathtub

otherwise it was perfect!
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January 21st, 2010, 06:11 AM
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With my last baby, since it was only 15 minutes there wasn't a whole lot that could be changed. Nothing we really could have done differently. We were not expecting things to progress as they did.

I romanticized the heck out of it. I think I should have been more realistic given my history. I really, really wanted a water birth and had certain things I wanted to do or use. I really wanted to record me in 'labor' and the waterbirth and take pictures. This time my camera and camcorder were fully charged and ready, but things went too fast so we didn't get pictures until after.
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January 21st, 2010, 02:27 PM
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It was really really perfect, the only thing I would like to have is more pictures and I wish I had video taped it - my whole labor was so short it would have been a mini-film lol!
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January 21st, 2010, 06:10 PM
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More pictures as well and insisted the stupid nurses would have kept her in the room while they worked on stopping my hemorrhaging.
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