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September 11th, 2010, 09:17 AM
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I feel so horrible for bashing my MIL. She's been full of drama lately, and has been abusing pain medication, etc. It's been an ongoing thing for months, and now she's in the hospital, with kidney failure, about to start emergency dialysis. Apparently they said her kidneys are releasing toxins into her body which could be deadly.

DH called me crying his eyes out. I wanted to rush over to the hospital to be with him, but he insists that he doesn't want me hanging around a hospital, exposed to who knows what germs. I just feel so horrible that he's alone. I thought about going over there anyway, but I don't want him to be upset and worrying about me on top of things. His brother is flying in this afternoon, but I still feel bad that he's by himself.
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September 11th, 2010, 11:28 AM
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I'm so sorry! I'll be praying for all of you!!
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September 11th, 2010, 02:59 PM
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*Hugz* Just be there for him when he comes home, and send him support texts throughout the day. My DH says he made his choice he is putting his baby and you first so you should stay at home.
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September 11th, 2010, 05:35 PM
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September 11th, 2010, 06:53 PM
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Thanks girls. I've been texting him and talking to him through out the day. His brother is here now and his mom seems to have made some slight improvements after her first round of dialysis today.

I made a pan of lasagna and turtle brownies, and I'm going to leave a little note for him to enjoy it when they get home. It'll be late, and I'll be in bed, but I'm sure they'll appreciate the good food.
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September 12th, 2010, 07:08 AM
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Your DH is very thoughtful! I hope things get better for your MIL but you shouldn't feel bad about not liking the things she was doing. Hopefully she will learn her lesson and get straight before your little one arrives!
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September 12th, 2010, 09:57 AM
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Oh I'm sorry your MIL isn't doing well! Any update this morning?
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September 12th, 2010, 10:09 AM
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We were hoping for good news. I talked to her this morning and I thought she sounded a little better. DH and his brother met with the Nephrologist this morning and they don't feel that her kidneys have any ability to function. They are doing a biopsy tomorrow to try to determine the extent of the damage and will go from there.
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