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i see there isn't a specific area for VBAC mamas here on JM im guessing this owuld be the place for it if you did have one, so im searching you all out!
i need to know how long YOU all waitied before going into the hospital? i know there was a post about this, but i think it was more focused towards BTDT vaginal birth mamas, not necessarily VBAC mamas.
basically i need tips, lessons, advice, whatever you've got! we'll be getting a doula and laboring at home, but i need to know what you all did as far as getting in the hospital with enough time but yet not too much to be bullied or forced into another cesarean.
At 40 weeks I was already 4-5 cm dilated. My contractions started at around 10:00pm when I was 40weeks 3days and as soon as I noticed them coming regularly and getting a little stronger, I called the midwife. She said I should come on in since I had an hour drive to the hospital since I was already 4-5 cm, it would be best not to wait.
By the time we left to head to the hospital, which was about 30 minutes after I talked to the midwife, my contractions were about 6 minutes apart. By the time we got to the hospital they were about 3-4 minutes apart. We arrived at the hospital at 12:30am and when we got there I was 6cm dilated and labor was very well established in a good pattern by then. I'm glad we didn't wait.
For you, I'd just wait and see how dilated you are...if you are already dilated quite a bit when you go into labor, then you won't need to wait as long to go in, but if you aren't dilated that much or only like 1-2 cm or something, you could labor at home until you feel like you can't anymore.
I would just use the wait and see approach, but definitely refuse all unecessary interventions, including induction. Just letting everything happen and progress on it's own is your best chance at a successful VBAC.
I have no experience because I am still preggo. Hopefully in a few weeks I will get my VBAC. I do live about 1.5 hrs away from my OBGYNS hospital and it is the only VBAC friendly one. I chose this one because of it being VBAC friendly and I had DD there. I will be waiting as long as I can until I go in. We have discussed it. If we have the money, once I establish that I AM in labor, I will probably go to a hotel to labor so I am really close to the hospital. I will let you know. Hope you get the birth you are looking for.