[pepper73]

I am so mad at my BF right now. Last night I waited and waited for him to come home until I cooked dinner. I finally couldn't take it anymore, cooked dinner, and ate by myself. No phone call from him or anything. I sent him a text saying that maybe I would just stop cooking dinner for him. A little while later he called me and said "I'm a horrible person" and I said "yes you are". He then proceeded to try and joke about it by asking me if I was going to spank him. That did NOT go over well. He ended up going to my neighbor's house...mainly to avoid the situation instead of attempting to make things right. He finally showed up around 9ish with my brother (good friend who is really like a brother to me) in tow as his "buffer". I said hi to my brother and told my BF to go F himself. I was so mad. It just really frustrates me because he has been late in coming home before and knows how much it upsets me when I spend time making dinner for him only to have him come home late without calling. Is it really that hard to pick up a phone? His solution is always "well, you can always call me"...uh no, that is not my responsibility. I'm not the one who's late. I'm also upset because we're all going camping today but he won't be going until tomorrow afternoon because he has to go out on his lobster boat. So, he couldn't be bothered to spend time with me knowing we weren't going to see each other until later tomorrow. Plus, the night before he made plans with me to watch a movie with him last night. I haven't even spoken to him since last night. I am still fuming and very disappointed in him. He is usually great but sometimes he can be so inconsiderate. He's 37 years old. It's time to man up.

Why are men so stupid sometimes? It doesn't take that much...just a little bit of effort.

Sorry for the long vent. I just needed to get it all out!

[*SamF*]

{hugs}

Men can suck at times.

[BeckyM]

Originally Posted by *SamF*

Men can suck at times.

(((((Hugs))))) I would have been upset too.

[pepper73]

Thanks ladies. It just kills me that men think we are so hard to figure out when it's really quite simple. Oh well, hopefully he'll smarten up and start kissing my butt.

[Lisap2008]

Sorry to hear that,I know how frustrating that is. I had to deal with the same thing with my EX . I hope you two are able to work things out ,Hugs.

[pepper73]

Thanks...we did work it out. He showed up at the campground Saturday night and after he saw that I was still not really talking to him, he pulled me aside and finally apologized to me. That's all I needed and we are good again.