[pepper73]

Hello ladies! I have had a rough couple of weeks trying to figure out what to do. I had a long talk with my BF and some issues came up that I was already suspicious about. Basically, he admitted that he'd been doing some things I don't approve of and also lying to me about it. That was the sign I needed to get out of the relationship. I was lucky enough to find an apartment right away (it's hard up here in the boonies) and started moving my things in yesterday. I am sad because I thought I could trust him, but was totally betrayed. In the middle of all of this, I haven't even had a chance to think about my feelings for my ex-husband. I will now have plenty of time and personal privacy to dig deep and figure out what direction I want to go. So, right now I am on a definite TTC hold until I either find the right man, get back with my ex, or go with a sperm donor. I've got too much on my plate right now to even think about any of that for a while. I know I don't have a lot of time because of my age, but I also know it's not over yet. I will become a mom. I will be extremely busy with moving in the next few days, but hopefully things will settle down soon so I can catch up on everything going on here. Until I start TTC again, I will just hang around here and be a cheerleader for the rest of you!

[LauraTTCat42]

It's good to hear from you Sarah

I am sorry that BF disappointed you, but this may just be the time you need to think and reflect on how to move forward and find the peace and happiness you deserve.

Very happy you will be hanging around with us, you always give great advice and have always been very supportive. If you ever want to chat you can PM me anytime Hug

[BeckyM]

I was thinking of you, and was getting ready to send you a PM to see how you are doing. I'm so sorry BF betrayed you like that , and happy you found your own place this quickly. Take all the time you need to make your decisions, and I'm very happy you'll be here to cheer everyone on. That's been my role too.

[Ever]

I'm so sorry your BF wasn't trustworthy. Good for you for having the guts to get out of it, so many women don't! While you're cheering us on for our BFPs we'll all be cheering you on to find your way to your own BFP!!

[sleepinangel]

I’m sorry your BF betrayed you, but I’m so proud of you that you took the steps needed to get out of the relationship. Take some time and heal and think about everything, we’ll be here for you.