[Mrschilly]

Hi my husband and I are trying for our third child.* It’s hard to talk to him about it because he just thinks that because we already have 2 then the third won’t be a problem.* I was on the Mirena for 3 ½ years but had it removed in August 2011.* I am back to having regular-irregular periods which range between 40-45 days I am now at day 47 I did a hpt and it was a BFN.* I feel tired but that might just be due to lack of sleep because I am not sleeping very well either.* I have been going to the bathroom a lot but that could just be due to getting rid of “holiday season” fluid.*

Any ideas or suggestions.*
Thanks

[mat616]

Hello!! Welcome to the board!!

My first tip is to relax, which is easier than it sounds.
Keep a calendar with your dates (sounds ike you are already).
Take Folic Acid or prenatal vitamins so your body can be ready.

Try to BD during the week before you think you will ovulate so you can catch the eggie.

Those are all I can think of right now.

Good luck!!

[*SamF*]

No great suggestions, as it took MA for me to get both my sticky babies.
Good luck though and welcome to the board!

[Mrschilly]

After 50 days got AF hopefully just taking a few cycles to get regular after having IUD removed last August.

[*SamF*]

It can take a while for you body to regulate itself. But having a cycle typically does mean that you are ovulating! Are you using OPK's?

[BeckyM]

I also recommend charting, Temps & Checking CM/CP. That's the main way I kept my sanity with my wonky cycles and figured out when I O'd. OPKs never worked for me. Good luck.