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October 23rd, 2012, 12:46 AM
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As some of you know dh and I have had a hard few mths ttc .so dh wants us to have a break from tests and days .and the stress of it all . I must say its nice not stressing atm iv no idea what day I'm on .and we not bd just cause its o time so have to . Feeling a lot more relaxed .I'm still watching for cm tho and other signs .but not like the last few mths where iv been obsessed to the point of driving us both mad lol I'm hoping I can keep this up for rest of the mth and just enjoy my life with dh and the kids .here's to chilling . X
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October 23rd, 2012, 04:07 AM
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Chilling sounds pretty good! Sometimes it really just helps to not think about it too much, even just one month "off"

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October 23rd, 2012, 09:45 AM
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I agree! A casual month or two can do the soul good.
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October 23rd, 2012, 10:11 AM
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Thanks girls I def need some r and r and to be normal not vicky tcc and its not happening .we all need it some times don't we.
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October 23rd, 2012, 10:56 PM
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Absolutely ^^^ we all need the r & r sometimes. I am going to join you for a couple of months
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October 23rd, 2012, 11:05 PM
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Let's hope the withdrawal from wee sticks and watching the calander isn't to much for us lol
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October 23rd, 2012, 11:39 PM
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Well definitely going to save some money on the wee sticks, LOL!
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October 24th, 2012, 12:38 AM
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This is true . Hipee more shoes instead lol x
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October 24th, 2012, 04:56 AM
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No weeing! Oh dear.
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October 24th, 2012, 05:11 AM
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We started our break in July and got pregnant in August. Relaxing a bit is a good idea. That being said, even though we were on a break I still temped everyday and used OPKs that I had left over. I never told DH what phase I was in or if I was Oing. I initiated BDing and if he asked if I was Oing, well, I LIED. I told him I didn't know when I was going to.

We took a month break after our loss in Sept. and we are going to try again. I feel bad not disclosing this type of information from DH, but I'm not going to tell him what's going on in my cycle.
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October 24th, 2012, 10:34 AM
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A break can be good.sometimes it just gets to much . Mth after mth of failing to get pregnant .it really hurts heart and head . So its nice to step back .but saying that I'm still watching for signs that I'm about to o . And I get not telling dh .I'm kind of gonna do that .it takes the stress of them . So its not a bad thing keeping quite.its helping dh to stay relaxed .and I'm more chilled if I'm honest as iv no idea what day I'm on and I'm not testing for o .

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October 24th, 2012, 05:42 PM
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We called it Military style. cause he didnt ask and i didnt tell, but last time I was watching signs temping opking etc. If we got up to the dickens great if not whatever. I do have to admit I was quite heartbroken one night, after a day of inneundos on his part, he was too tired and I happened to have a positive OPK. Didnt matter though. That was our month and our Toe came out of it
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