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As some of you know dh and I have had a hard few mths ttc .so dh wants us to have a break from tests and days .and the stress of it all . I must say its nice not stressing atm iv no idea what day I'm on .and we not bd just cause its o time so have to . Feeling a lot more relaxed .I'm still watching for cm tho and other signs .but not like the last few mths where iv been obsessed to the point of driving us both mad lol I'm hoping I can keep this up for rest of the mth and just enjoy my life with dh and the kids .here's to chilling . X
We started our break in July and got pregnant in August. Relaxing a bit is a good idea. That being said, even though we were on a break I still temped everyday and used OPKs that I had left over. I never told DH what phase I was in or if I was Oing. I initiated BDing and if he asked if I was Oing, well, I LIED. I told him I didn't know when I was going to.
We took a month break after our loss in Sept. and we are going to try again. I feel bad not disclosing this type of information from DH, but I'm not going to tell him what's going on in my cycle.
A break can be good.sometimes it just gets to much . Mth after mth of failing to get pregnant .it really hurts heart and head . So its nice to step back .but saying that I'm still watching for signs that I'm about to o . And I get not telling dh .I'm kind of gonna do that .it takes the stress of them . So its not a bad thing keeping quite.its helping dh to stay relaxed .and I'm more chilled if I'm honest as iv no idea what day I'm on and I'm not testing for o .
Last edited by vickyblueeyes; October 24th, 2012 at 11:37 AM.
We called it Military style. cause he didnt ask and i didnt tell, but last time I was watching signs temping opking etc. If we got up to the dickens great if not whatever. I do have to admit I was quite heartbroken one night, after a day of inneundos on his part, he was too tired and I happened to have a positive OPK. Didnt matter though. That was our month and our Toe came out of it
Korbyn 28 week miracle 5/17/13