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Before TTC I never really had pregnant/baby dreams. Since trying I've had 2. The first one was a few months ago & I was sure it was a "message" that we'd get lucky & end up in the July DDC. Well that obviously didn't happen.
I had another dream 2 nights ago & it just bummed me out. I'm finding it really hard to be optimistic about us having another baby. I kind of feel, at this point, that our time has already run out.
Hopefully I start to feel a little more upbeat soon as we need to BD today-Monday. Hope everyone else is having a good week & we get some BFPs soon!
we all have our up days and down days . ttc is so hard on our hearts and heads !!!
but we stay strong and most of the time positive hun , i cant say it gets more easy to cope with but we learn to deal with it is all.
on the dreams , iv always had dreams just before iv fell pregnant or early pregnant . with my second child i was shown a baby girl given her name and i was 6 weeks pregnant, i did have a girl and i did call her lexie which i was given , so yes these things can happen and i take them as signs, so stay positive , just believe !!! it will happen ,
Oh friend--TTC is not for the faint of heart, especially for those of us 'older' broads who society keeps saying things like "Your bio clock is TICKING! HELLO!!!!!!!" And, I dont know about the other awesome ladies here, but it can take a toll on marriage and BD'ing too...my husband so far has been great, but he did have one moment he floored me when he said he felt like the romance was gone---and it was all about being a 'machine' to make a baby ...boy, did we have to have a bigtime sit down talk after that, which I'm SO happy we did as our relationship actually took on a better note...as well as our romantic times
Here is a virtual hug for you, and LOTS of support that we DO understand and you're *definitely* NOT alone...
so true our dh feel under so much presure too we can forget that .my dh has said some of the same stuff at one point ,ttc is so hard for us all .but we dont give up and stay positive when we can . by pure will power and a positive attatude we will get our bfp girls