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  #1  
January 20th, 2013, 10:13 AM
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I had it all planned out this mth. But irs gone a bit pear shaped. Iv not had a lh surge when I normaly do . So I'm waiting to o . I was gonna get lots of bd in on. Day before surge lh day and o day . But now I don't know where I am . On top of this dh is sick at this time. Some times the best laid plans full. Feeling defeated before I start this mth .
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January 20th, 2013, 12:38 PM
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I am sorry that this is happening to you. I know exactly how you feel about thinking you are out before you even get started. I felt that way, too, when my nurse told me about the polyp on my cervix.

I am happy though that I O'd because at least now I know I am O'ing on my own and may not need to use Clomid!

I hope you get your surge soon and that you O and I also hope your dh gets to feeling better so you can get to bd!!
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January 20th, 2013, 01:25 PM
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I hear you. I got a stomach bug and was throwing up all night dizzy on O-day and the day before. Needless to say we missed BD. There was nothing I could do abot it. I am still feeling kind of crappy. Fertile days are over for me.

I hope somebody had a good cycle.
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January 20th, 2013, 05:18 PM
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I know how you feel with a sick partner. My SO seems to have been sick at least half of the cycles since we've started trying. Hope he feels better & you O soon!
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January 20th, 2013, 09:36 PM
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thank you girls, it is funny we all startted out positive for this one and life has just got in the way , dh is still sick today ,and at last i have a positve o test .on day 14 late for me ,oh well will see how dh feels later .
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January 21st, 2013, 12:06 AM
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Sorry bout dh being sick, I hope he feels better soon and you can get in your bd for O.

I know what you mean about plans falling out. Something has gone wrong nearly every cycle for us. DH not well, me not well, DH not in the mood, the family being at the house. We have only bd twice the past cycle!

I dunno, lately the intimate side of our life has gone down the tubes? Not sure what to think anymore or why there is no interest in bd, but def not going to get pg with limited bd.
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January 21st, 2013, 02:21 AM
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Sorry bout dh being sick, I hope he feels better soon and you can get in your bd for O.

I know what you mean about plans falling out. Something has gone wrong nearly every cycle for us. DH not well, me not well, DH not in the mood, the family being at the house. We have only bd twice the past cycle!

I dunno, lately the intimate side of our life has gone down the tubes? Not sure what to think anymore or why there is no interest in bd, but def not going to get pg with limited bd.
thanks laura im sure dh will get there in the end ,the cold weather really plays his chest up and its cold atm ! the lack of air then makes him feel like poo ,headache sick legs hurt ,poor sod ! but yep if any one gets ill ,its around o time ,why is that ? iv had same as you any thing from iv been ill to toothache both of us colds ,sickness you name it . does drive me mad . kids the list goes on .

and yes i know what you mean about bd ing ,i think its the presure we are put under,sometimes we just need to jazz our sex lives up abit, it can get boring , maybe its time for play time lol , have a look around there is lots out there and see what you can do( a nice rub down with nice oils is always nice ) and surprise him and enjoy trouble is sex is for loving and enjoyment that specail person , but when you are both tcc it gets all about having a baby , and there is the difference .
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January 21st, 2013, 12:22 PM
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thank you girls, it is funny we all startted out positive for this one and life has just got in the way , dh is still sick today ,and at last i have a positve o test .on day 14 late for me ,oh well will see how dh feels later .
I went through that a couple of cycles back. The anxiety was almost more than I could take. Give DH some vitamin C and put on something sexy and tell him sick or not he's just going to have to take one for the team
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January 21st, 2013, 06:19 PM
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i know you u feel there for awhile it was his back everytime. its played out.. I on this have the flu now.. plus af.. not a good combo.. i have no plans no opk no temp.. just gonna go with the flow.. and home for a nomal 30 to 36 cycle. did you know that the way u sleep changes you cycle..sleep at night in pure darkeness for a week. and then light supost to regulate you cycle.. so much going around about it
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January 21st, 2013, 09:59 PM
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hopingforonemore= i nearlly half killed dh yesterday lol and we managed bd 2 times yay !!! he still not well but his not letting the side down ,

devermom = taking a break from all the tests and temps is def good for our souls i did this about 3 mths ago, def less stressful i hope you get your bfp hun .no i didnt know about the light and cycles ,may try that !!
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January 22nd, 2013, 04:46 AM
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Yay! Let's hope you catch the egg, we are close in our cycle. I'll be ovulation in about 2 to 3 days. I am already dreading the tww and I'm not even in it yet I hate it.
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January 22nd, 2013, 06:00 AM
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Looks like my egg on its way .had a neg o test today .odd for me .I normally get 2 days of lh surge .and we not bd today yet but I will get dh at some point this evening .this one has been a odd mth with my body .and I know the feeling about the 2 week wait .looks like I'm going into it tomorrow grrrrrr
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January 22nd, 2013, 02:41 PM
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I'm glad you were able to get some BDing in. I just got my positive OPK so I'll be ovulation in 24-36 hours. I'm thinking closer to Thursday is when I should ovulate. I went to acupuncture today and told her my uterus was really sore. She said good everything working. I worry it's the endo coming back but I'll be optimist and say it's the acupuncture.
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January 22nd, 2013, 10:29 PM
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we only db twice on the day of lh surge, nothing on day of o ,cause dh was tired ,so im not over happy with him tbh ,incase we missed the egg , but nothing i can do now about it, so will just have to wait it out for the nex t2 weeks and hope we did enough ,we have ended up db less then last mth ,so im not holding out much hope .

id say your tummy is the acupuncture hun ,try not to worry and stay positive if its hurting then ts wking in my head lol , good luck this mth
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January 23rd, 2013, 12:01 AM
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I just cant wait to start bd again lol.. I have no idea when O will be for me its use to be on cycle day 16 ..until this last year my cycle became all wacked out.. I have been enjoying the lemon jiuce for shure..
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January 23rd, 2013, 04:48 AM
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Sounds like you timed it perfect. It's best to BD 2-3 days before ovulation. So the sperms should have been there waiting on the egg
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January 24th, 2013, 01:23 AM
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rooting for you hun
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January 24th, 2013, 05:02 AM
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Here's to hoping your bd timing was spot on hun. FX'd your TWW is quick and ends with a BFP!
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January 27th, 2013, 10:12 PM
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well now 5dpo so only a few more days to go grrrrrrrrrr lol i do hate this time of the mth but i had a drop in temps yesterday and today a big spike looks like a inplantation dip but trying not to read to much in to it,just trying to stay hopeful .dont feel to stressed as of yet and nothing much to report on feel ok no signs of anything ,so who know lol
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January 28th, 2013, 01:10 AM
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Let's hope those temps keep rising Vicky!! Looks good
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