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February 3rd, 2013, 11:49 PM
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I thought I had O'd on CD 12 since I typically O between CD12 and CD14 and my temp started to rise on CD13 and 14. Figured I was out because of my usual bad timing for bd.

Then my temp dropped on CD15 and now looks like I might have O'd on CD17. I'm disappointed we didn't carry on bd especially if we were still in with a chance. Either my body geared up to O and didn't or this is an anovulatory cycle. Either way it looks like another bust month and it's going to be a long month at that with the late O.

Oh well, the tww must just move along quickly so we can start another cycle, maybe with better timing!

For all the ladies in the TWW, I hope your BFP's are there waiting for you and for the ladies waiting to O I hope your timing is great and you get your BFP soon
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February 4th, 2013, 04:25 AM
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Sperm can live up to five days so don't lose hope just yet
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February 4th, 2013, 09:41 PM
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we all with you laura ,we all been there upset gutted angry at the same time. our bodies do like mucking us around when its hard enough as it is !!! but dont lose hope you never know stranger things have happened hun ,
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February 4th, 2013, 10:35 PM
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Well I can say this cycle is getting stranger, LOL
Woke up this morning to a 36.54 temp drop, so I guess I still haven't or won't O. I just hope this isnt one of those cycles that drags on and on

Technically on a "normal" cycle I should be planning on having AF in the next 7 - 9 days. Oh well, what can I do....just go with it and wait
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February 5th, 2013, 04:43 AM
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Hmm have you ever used opk's?
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February 5th, 2013, 10:50 AM
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You are having a odd one hun .bit there lots of charts on ff with late o and still ladies are getting bfp. So don't give up yet . Wait and see what happened .if you been more stressed then normal may play a part in late o as you know . God this ttc and the ups and down of our bodies really does in our heads hun. Have a nice glass of wine and chill after wk say sod it and take the night off .have a night for you .may help !
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February 6th, 2013, 12:08 AM
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I do use OPK's when I am being good about TTC but I think this cycle the OPK's would have cost a fortune with constant testing because my body is acting really strange.

Vicky, the ups and downs do our heads in for sure. Yeah, think I'm going to go home after work today and have a relaxer. There is a lot of stress right now - kids have started a new school, which is a private school so the school fees are a killer, plus all the extra's I've had to buy for the school has been a big financial strain. Plus a few health issues going on with my ds. I'm just going to have to wait this cycle out and accept what is.

Still have my appointment for 4 March, so going to not worry about TTC until I can talk to the specialist.
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February 6th, 2013, 12:31 AM
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dont count it out yet hun. I was just there. I thought maybe I was close saterday and sunday but we didnt bd cause hubby was sick and we tried monday morning but things were like the sahara dessert..lol so then this morning I was kinda pissed cause thought mayeb we missed it cause im not using opk or temping this month.. we today we got in a huge fight..grrr then tonight use the bathroom and tons of ewcm with nothing this morning so I had hate and love sex tonight lol not gonna miss my chance if its time.. so for the next couple of days its on lol...
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February 6th, 2013, 12:37 AM
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Best way to think hun.kids dh and money always cause lots of stress then our bodies pay for it with o time normally ending up late or not at all.just chill girl .you have the doc in march to look forward to.I know sounds odd but he can start some tests and fingers x can help you and dh bring your baby home
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LOL, hey make up sex probably works better hopefully the egg and sperm meet with a vengence, hehehehe

I had EWCM the other day, then last night huge amounts of creamy, this morning nada, so whatever my body is doing is confusing the crap outta me. Kinda sucks when you give up hope and you haven't even hit the TWW because you know you are going to be sitting around for 2 weeks waiting for nothing.
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February 6th, 2013, 12:44 AM
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girl I know I have been pissed off all week. fight over this and that we never ever fight this much plus it doesnt help that BIL is still living with us.. then we got sick. but yes make up sex the best it better work .. I was the bigger person and said sorry lol.. so I could try for a baby , he didnt even know it was bam in your face night lol sorry its mean but darnit. I mean buisness,, lol
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girl I know I have been pissed off all week. fight over this and that we never ever fight this much plus it doesnt help that BIL is still living with us.. then we got sick. but yes make up sex the best it better work .. I was the bigger person and said sorry lol.. so I could try for a baby , he didnt even know it was bam in your face night lol sorry its mean but darnit. I mean buisness,, lol
We probably have all been guilty. LOL we do what we gotta do!
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February 6th, 2013, 11:46 PM
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you have to do what we gotta do.. I never tell hubby its O time I just get on it and work it till I get it.plain and simple.. and I dont mean get on it litterly lol just u all know what I mean a little wine some snacks and some bom chicka wow wow
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February 7th, 2013, 12:54 AM
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Girl you wk it lol . And yep we all do what we got to do if we get those bfp its worth it
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This is becoming one of the most confusing cycles I have EVER had!!!!

Thursday I decided to buy OPK since my BBT is not showing any clear signs of O. Thursday afternoon OPk was darn near positive, I had to really examine it to rule it out as a positive. Friday afternoon the test line was way darker then the control and Saturday was even darker.

Sunday morning my temp rose quite a bit to my previous temps so I figured ok I finally O'd last night and didn't bother to take another OPK. This morning I wake up and my temp is one the lowest temps I have had this crazy cycle. So WTH is going on!

I have pre-af temp and pre-af cm. I am on CD25. My shortest cycle has been 25 days and my longest 29 days. So should I be expecting AF tomorrow, then what is with the + OPK's?

It is possible to have a secondary LH surge during the LP but for me it is not normally this late in my cycle, well I dont even know what this cycle is so I guess I dont really know if it is too late or not.

Sorry for venting. So frustrated, maybe I should have some cheese with my whine, lol
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February 11th, 2013, 03:58 AM
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Oh and my fertile cm was 5 days before the +OPK's. No fertile cm now, argh
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Are you sure you didn't ovulate? It's possible to ovulate twice in one month. Ack I don't know, I wish I could help you!
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February 11th, 2013, 05:55 AM
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I am not sure of anything right now. First time in 19 cycles I dont have a clue what is going on, LOL

Have 2 more OPK so when I get home this afternoon I am going to use another one to see what I get, it's like TTC Roulette, LOL
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February 11th, 2013, 08:17 AM
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we all go through it .yours I think is due to stress.take it as it comes its frustrating but out of your control.and you can o twice in one mth.also you can gear up to o quite a few times before you do o .I think you may be doing that hun.stay strong xx
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