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February 4th, 2013, 05:56 AM
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You know this month I was just certain that I would get pregnant. I just felt it. The entire month I had the strong feeling I was pregnant. Yesterday I took a frer and I thought I saw a line and today it was just negative. How do you trust your instincts when they lead you so far off? My mom told me yesterday that she felt like I would get pregnant this next cycle. I don't trust her instincts any more than mine anymore. I trust God but I can't help that I'm a little sad. Now I hope AF arrived soon. 2-3 more days and she should be here. I hate ttc.
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February 4th, 2013, 06:19 AM
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Ttc is such a rollercoaster. Wait your cycle isn't even over yet. I know it's hard to do but time does pass eventually. And then you can pee again. I think it's too early to test. Fingers crossed. It ain't over till the witch shows her face.

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February 4th, 2013, 07:38 AM
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I'm so sorry friend...I really, really do understand...there was one month--my goodness---I could just FEEL my body accepting conception!!!...only for AF to show up a *full week* after I was normally due....I admit, I had a good cleansing cry---and why not? This is a tough time for us emotionally and many times physically too.

I'm with Celine...your cycle isn't over yet---tests can and do have false negatives...not trying to lead you down a primrose path, just staying positive even when it's HARD! And I hope this doesn't come across wrong...I get jealous of women I know who had total surprise BFP's---I mean, not to get into the politics of pregnancy---I'm just saying TTC is tough emotionally, especially when it's been going for awhile with BFN after BFN, and then a friend comes up with a BFP who wasn't even trying....I'm happy for their miracle but at the same time the feeling is still there "Can't wait for MY turn too "....and I don't think I'm a horrible person and neither is anyone else for feeling that way....
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February 4th, 2013, 09:01 AM
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You girls are the best. Each month I desperately hold on thinking maybe it's a late implant. But I've been around the block enough to know I'm only kidding myself. I really think by now the test would be positive if I were pregnant. I stopped the progesterone today so af can come on time. I have spotted the last two days for a couple of hours each day. No spotting today so far but I know it's coming.

angel I know exactly what you are saying and exactly how you feel. I'm just sick of it. This too shall pass. LOL I'll order some more opk's and add another month under my belt.
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February 4th, 2013, 09:47 PM
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im so sorry hun , i know as we all do how you feel ,iv had mths where i was sure we had it right ,and everything was right it just didnt happen, well im not pregnant again!!!!! so will be with you next mth ttc ,stay strong it will happen for you and for me and the other girls ,it just a matter of when it will happen, but it will
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February 4th, 2013, 10:45 PM
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It is still a bit early. And if you think you saw a line then didn't the next day there is a chance your urine was not as concentrated the 2nd day. Wait at least 2 more days, or for the day af is due to test again.

I do feel for you, TTC shouldn't be such a struggle especially when you feel so positive about the cycle. Good luck and I really hope you get a BFP instead of AF in a couple of days
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February 5th, 2013, 04:59 AM
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Thank you Laura, I'm thinking af will be here by tomorrow. The spotting has increased and I tested with a wondfo this am and it appears negative. I've decided I need something else to think about. I'm stating a new flowerbed today so maybe this will distract me for a bit.
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February 6th, 2013, 12:41 AM
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Im sorry hun Im with all the ladies I thought for shure I had it last month.. and nothing.
hang in there hun things will happen when u least exspect it I know its hard to listen 2 trust I get it all the time. were here for you..
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February 6th, 2013, 04:32 AM
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Im sorry hun Im with all the ladies I thought for shure I had it last month.. and nothing.
hang in there hun things will happen when u least exspect it I know its hard to listen 2 trust I get it all the time. were here for you..
Thanks maybe the witch will show today and I can move on.
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