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August 8th, 2014, 01:36 PM
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Don't want to write much right now but just found out I had a m/c. ; ( I'm pretty upset. I've never had one.
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August 8th, 2014, 05:41 PM
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hunni I wish i knew what to say but I dont Im truly sorry and heart broken for you I hope you heal fast..I will send prayers for you and your husband
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August 9th, 2014, 08:24 AM
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Oh Pam I'm so sorry. I can tell you that I still think about mine almost every day and it's been 10 months. I am so sorry. My heart hurts for you.
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August 9th, 2014, 11:41 AM
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I'm so sorry Pam. I had my first one in September, I would have had a 1 month old right now. I reflect back on it often, and it's still tough. I'll keep you in my prayers tonight.
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August 9th, 2014, 02:42 PM
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Pam, I am so sorry Hun
*hugs*
I know it throws you...I never had one in my life until a year ago, then I had 2. I don't understand and hate that it had to happen, to any of us.
When ur ready to talk, we're here
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August 9th, 2014, 05:57 PM
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Pam, I am so sorry to hear this I know firsthand how hard this is to go through and I really hate that you are having to go through it now It has been 6 months since my m/c and I still think about what would have been every day. You and your DH are in my thoughts and prayers.
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August 10th, 2014, 07:35 AM
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Pam, my heart is broken for you. So sorry that you are going through this, no one deserves to experience a m/c. It is a pain that only those that have gone through can possibly begin to imagine. I am praying for you and your DH. We're here for you, when you are ready. {{{Hugs}}}
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August 11th, 2014, 03:26 AM
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Thank you everyone for being there. The past few days has been hard. I havent been able to really grieve this at all. Made it even worse b/c my daughter went back to connecticut sunday morning. So emotionally inside... I'm a wreck. A couple days before Friday it crossed my mind that I hadnt felt the pregnancy symptoms as much and a little something made me wonder. When i woke up friday morning, i saw some pink but was hoping it was b/c my eyes werent awake yet. Then at work, I went to the bathroom and there it was. I went to my DH crying. Called my doctor and he suggested I go to the ER b/c the ultrasound person had left early and he was sure I would want answers now rather than wait for their bloodwork to come back. When they told me in the ER, I just cried. My heart sank and it's been broken since. Then to have to put my daughter on the plane just made it even harder.

I'm trying to look at the fact that i did get pregnant naturally and that God knew this wasnt the right egg to carry through term. Anyway... I'm just going to keep charting and what happens, happens. Just wish i could have rested this weekend and had time to stop and grieve. But it's back to work this morning.
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August 11th, 2014, 04:45 AM
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I'm sorry Pam. It truly suck and the timing was even worse. When I m/c'ed I thought the same thing. At least I did get pregnant naturally. {{hugs}} girl and do try to rest.
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August 11th, 2014, 09:06 AM
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I'm pretty much NTNP at this point and no more testing unless I'm over a week late or more. I'm temping still mostly to keep check to see if my cycles change. AF has stopped other than a little spotting but still crampy somewhat.
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August 11th, 2014, 11:02 AM
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So sorry to hear this news Pamela. Keeping you in my thoughts.
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August 11th, 2014, 11:14 AM
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Oh, Pam, I can't even tell how sorry I am...Praying for God's comfort for you and your DH.
Please do not give up, it is a huge thing that you did become pregnant naturally and who knows what God has in store for you.
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August 11th, 2014, 12:16 PM
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Pamela I'm so sorry Hun. I didn't even realize you were pregnant so I wasn't able to celebrate the exciting news.

I am so heartbroken for you and I mourn your loss. HUGS!
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August 12th, 2014, 11:13 AM
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Pam I am so very, very sorry....
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August 12th, 2014, 12:11 PM
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Renee... yeah.... I got a positive HPT on 12dpo, digi + on 13dpo and another + on 16dpo and then when I went to the ER on Friday..they said my levels showed no signs of pregnancy so I must have lost the little bean after 16dpo. The plus is... I got pregnant. So hopefully the next will be a good egg.

Thanks everyone for all the support. I havent had a chance to really stop and think about things so I guess that's a good thing right?


Is it normal for low back pain and overall soreness in my uterus area? I guess things going back to normal? I just really hurt in my back and achiness.
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August 12th, 2014, 01:58 PM
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Pamela my experience was heavier AF with cramps and everything resumed back to normal the same cycle. It wouldn't hurt to go to your Dr just to get confirmation.

Sorry to hear your DD went back home as well. This has got to be a very hard emotional week for you. Many HUGS.
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August 13th, 2014, 05:43 AM
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I'm so sorry Pam. I found with my early MC that the busier I was the better. I ran myself ragged the first few weeks, and it kept my mind active and away from the horrible images and thoughts.

I had horrible cramps and bleeding for over 7 days. It took two weeks for my levels to go back to zero. I got my next period exactly 28 days later. If your levels are at zero already, then your body is working the way it's supposed to. I know that is no real consolation, but you won't need a D&C.


Remember to take some time to rest. Your body and mind need rest.
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August 13th, 2014, 10:25 AM
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My levels were at zero in the ER so it happened right after my positive on 16dpo so somewhere in my 4th week. My AF lasted 3 days and spotted for 2 and it's gone today. So back on the horse I guess.
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August 13th, 2014, 05:04 PM
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still sending you hugs hun
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