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May 13th, 2009, 01:36 PM
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I lost my baby in October 15, 2008. I had to have a D & C and it was horrible. I was in lots of pain the 2 days preceeding it and then I had so much cramping right after. They gave me Vicodin to take during that time. I kept taking it even after the physical pain was gone. 2 weeks after losing the baby, I got a period. I had ttc a couple times after that, but was terrified and so stopped. I since decided to become a surrogate and help someone else first, then work on my miracle # 5. My friend just found out she is pg on 12 May, and with my baby's due date 2 weeks away, it's a bittersweet announcement. I want to be happy for her, but at the same time, I should be delivering my baby any day. This is really hard and I don't know how I will get thru it. I wish I could get vicodin till June to try to forget, but I know that's not the best thing to do. I just wish I could have kept her in there. Why did I have to lose my baby and everyone else, with unwanted pregnancies or people on welfare, get to keep theirs? Why did a girl I know get to have her baby just recently, after getting abortions, and I lost mine? I don't know how to get thru these next weeks. HELP!

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May 13th, 2009, 02:42 PM
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I'm so sorry that your sweet baby isn't with you. Why don't you post on the main forum? Vent as much as you need, the ladies are so wonderful here.

Also, if you want your sweet baby added to our angel memorial list, please just click on the sticky (in the main forum) and add your information.

As for making it though, well...it's hard. It's like watching a tsunami coming your way. You know it's coming and you can get away from it to save yourself, so you just hold on tight and hope that your anchor is steady enough. I've always had to take it one day at a time and keep yourself busy.

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May 13th, 2009, 02:42 PM
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I'm so sorry that your sweet baby isn't with you. Why don't you post on the main forum? Vent as much as you need, the ladies are so wonderful here.

Also, if you want your sweet baby added to our angel memorial list, please just click on the sticky (in the main forum) and add your information.

As for making it though, well...it's hard. It's like watching a tsunami coming your way. You know it's coming and you can get away from it to save yourself, so you just hold on tight and hope that your anchor is steady enough. I've always had to take it one day at a time and keep yourself busy.

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May 14th, 2009, 09:48 PM
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I'm so sorry that your sweet baby isn't with you. Why don't you post on the main forum? Vent as much as you need, the ladies are so wonderful here.

Also, if you want your sweet baby added to our angel memorial list, please just click on the sticky (in the main forum) and add your information.

As for making it though, well...it's hard. It's like watching a tsunami coming your way. You know it's coming and you can get away from it to save yourself, so you just hold on tight and hope that your anchor is steady enough. I've always had to take it one day at a time and keep yourself busy.


Thank you. I found the main forum and the sticky. It feels EXACTLY that way..... Thank you for letting me know that you were able to stay strong...I will try to do the same thing.
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