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I just found out last Friday (May 9) that I was pregnant; I started spotting on Sunday evening, and woke up Monday morning not feeling pregnant any more... I had lab work done and my HCG's dropped all the way down to a 1... I would have been 4 weeks along when I miscarried. This is a huge loss for my husband and me, we've been trying for 5 months to conceive... when we found out I was pregnant, we were filled with so much joy; then to find out 3 days later that I miscarried was devestating... The first day and a half were very difficult for both of us... we couln't figure out why this happened to us when there are teenage girls getting pregnant all the time, then they just get an abortion b/c they weren't ready... today is Wednesday, and I'm slowly coming to terms with this. Today will be the first day I've been by myself, either my huband, parents, or friends have been here 24/7. I can't keep my mind off of this... my husband and I keep telling ourselves "God did this for a reason, and He doesn't make mistakes." I understand that, but it still hurts... can anyone help me with some coping strategies?