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July 26th, 2007, 06:49 PM
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Well I found out that I was pregnant in February with my bf's baby. We were so happy and excited. We were looking at some homes and looking up baby names. I made my first doctors appointment when I was 10 weeks. I was a little scared because I wasn't having many symptoms. The father really wanted to go but I told him all that they were going to do was do a exam and draw blood. I told him he wouldn't miss anything important. Well when I got to the doctors I told her about my symptoms and that I was scared so the did an u/s. The baby was so tiny. She was measuring and said it showed that I was about 5 or 6 weeks. I was confused cause when I took a pregnancy test in the beginning it was positive. She was looking for the baby's heartbeat but there wasn't one. I was heartbroken. She said that the baby's heart must have stopped at around 5 or 6 weeks but the sac was still growing. My body didn't naturally "release" the baby. The father was really upset. I felt like it was my fault. She said it was nothing that I did and I couldn't have prevented it. But I still can't help but feel like maybe I did something wrong. I feel horrible for not letting him go to the doctors with me. He could have been there for me and got to say goodbye to our baby.

Thanks for reading girls...it really helps to get this out.
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July 26th, 2007, 07:43 PM
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Well I found out that I was pregnant in February with my bf's baby. We were so happy and excited. We were looking at some homes and looking up baby names. I made my first doctors appointment when I was 10 weeks. I was a little scared because I wasn't having many symptoms. The father really wanted to go but I told him all that they were going to do was do a exam and draw blood. I told him he wouldn't miss anything important. Well when I got to the doctors I told her about my symptoms and that I was scared so the did an u/s. The baby was so tiny. She was measuring and said it showed that I was about 5 or 6 weeks. I was confused cause when I took a pregnancy test in the beginning it was positive. She was looking for the baby's heartbeat but there wasn't one. I was heartbroken. She said that the baby's heart must have stopped at around 5 or 6 weeks but the sac was still growing. My body didn't naturally "release" the baby. The father was really upset. I felt like it was my fault. She said it was nothing that I did and I couldn't have prevented it. But I still can't help but feel like maybe I did something wrong. I feel horrible for not letting him go to the doctors with me. He could have been there for me and got to say goodbye to our baby.

Thanks for reading girls...it really helps to get this out.[/b]
I'm so sorry for your loss, I have had two like that so far, everything was fine no bleeding or nothing then my hormone levels just dropped, your in my thoughts
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July 26th, 2007, 07:51 PM
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Thank you so much, I really appreciate it. I'm sorry to hear about your losses as well
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