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June 30th, 2008, 02:49 AM
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I know its early as im only going in for my miscarraige to be started off today but how long has it took others to get pregnant again?
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June 30th, 2008, 04:45 AM
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Hi Marie,

This is in no way to replace what your doctor would suggest ~ but I believe you're to wait 1-3 cycles before ttc'ing again.

My experience: DH and I got pregnant immediately after the D&C ~ and it resulted in another angel baby.

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June 30th, 2008, 05:15 AM
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As Katey said - most Dr's will recommend anywhere from 1-3 cycles. It really depends on what is done typically. Some say with a D&C you need at least one cycle to build up a uterine lining. If you are given any meds to help the mc along it can take 3 months to have it all of your system, etc. It really is hard to say & I would ask your Dr & if you are unhappy with his answer, then ask him why he suggests waiting & then you can make a better decision based on his info & what you feel up to. I am sorry you are going through this today. Thoughts & prayers to you.
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June 30th, 2008, 05:23 AM
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My OB told me 1 cycle and it resulted in another angel baby also. My RE said to wait at least 2-3 cycles especially with a natural one since there may be small tissues left behind that can't be seen on the u/s.

Hugs. I swear the "waiting" is the second worst part.
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June 30th, 2008, 11:57 PM
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I am having the medical miscarraige with the one tablet yesterday then i have to go back on wednesday to have a tablet inserted vaginally that will completely expel all the tissue and start the miscarrage off.
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July 2nd, 2008, 08:42 PM
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I was told to wait one cycle and even after 3 D&c's all 3 were for hemeraging AFTER the baby had come.

As well as 2 more that I didnt need a d&c for.

I got pg 7w weeks after haveing baby at home at 17w then hemeraging resulting in ambulance ride to Hosp 1 hour away then a d&c and a blood transfusison after.

I was told after several check ups to wait till after first af and I did. It came at 7w and my ds is healthy 9 month old today

I am so sorry for you loss :hugs:

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