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July 22nd, 2008, 05:40 PM
Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: May 2007
Location: Upstate SC
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I have had 2 chemical PG since I had my youngest child and 7 miscarriages and 1 chemical PG before DS#1 ands one chemical before DS#2.

My dr. gave us the go ahead to TTC again as soon as I started bleeding again which to my suprise was only 2 wks after my Chem. PG. I'm practicing charting and taking Metformin and Soy but we aren't going to activly try until August.

People ask me why I want to TTC when I have 2 kids already but they just don't know that I feel like someone is missing.
I'm Tina 33, married almost 8 years to Fred 33 and we have Nick who will be 4 Aug. 13( he has autism) and Jon who will be 3 Oct. 10.

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July 24th, 2008, 02:29 PM
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Location: Michigan
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Hi Tina - welcome to the board! This area seems to be a little slow lately - but if you hang in there, there are a few ladies from this group that are TTC currently. I am sorry you have been through so much loss. Don't worry about what others think at ALL (I know, easier said than done). But even when I had no living children I had people say stuff like "I don't know how you could keep putting yourself through this". I guess wanting to have a child is not something people truly respect or even try to understand, particularly if it has come easily for them. I wish you all the best & look forward to getting to know you!
B - Crazy momma to my two boys
We've begun to raise daughters more like sons... but few have the courage to raise our sons more like our daughters. ~Gloria Steinem

If a man has been his mother's undisputed darling he retains throughout life the triumphant feeling, the confidence in success, which not seldom brings actual success along with it. ~Sigmund Freud
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July 24th, 2008, 08:37 PM
Mega Super Mommy
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I had people asking me that before Nick was born, it was horrible.

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July 25th, 2008, 08:41 AM
4iris's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: May 2006
Location: Midwest
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Welcome! I think you'll find this is a great place for TTC support, because everyone here understands how recurrent loss hurts and how it changes your perspective on TTC. I couldn't have made it without my friends from this board. We'd also love to have you join us in the RPL Graduates subforum to talk about your boys.

I'm Kathryn, mom to 2 boys (ages 7 yrs and 15 mos), with two angels in between.
Do not sorrow; the joy of the Lord is your strength." Neh. 8:10
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