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How do you girls do it? I just had my third loss in Jan. I was 20 weeks and thought that I was out of the woods.
Now here I am, I want another baby so badly but I am so scared to death. I feel the want, I know that I want to be, but the fear is so bad. I have dealt with that ok, but now Im late, and the possibility is there. I don't feel happy, I mean Im not angry or upset that I could be, Im just scared. I don't want to go through it again. Nothing hurts that bad. The only thing that would be worse would be to have one of my live children pass on.
I wish I could be all yay we are going to try again, and really I want to, but the fear of it happening again almost cripples me.
it is difficult to pick up and move on, especially when another pregnancy is concerned. I think the key is to try to take it day by day. do your best to enjoy the here and now and try not to stress about what *might* happen. At least that is the way I try to look at it. I, however, have never faced a 20 week loss.
Oh honey! I am so sorry you are here. And your Gracie is beautiful. I lost my son in April and he looked just like your Gracie! They are so perfect aren't they? Tiny and perfect in everyway. You are very strong to be TTC again. It's hard everyday since we lost our son! We are scared sh&&less each month, and I hate it when I end up not pregnant, and sometimes I really do breathe a breath of relief when AF comes. I'm scared it will happen again too, but the odds say differently. PM if you ever want to talk. I'd love to hear about the birth of your beautiful angel.