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December 27th, 2008, 07:29 AM
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So, I have approximately 35 day cycles, always O-ing no sooner than day 15. Well, DF and I have been on a break until October, because of our wedding in September.

This month we had sex on CD 8. I told him that we'd be fine without a condom. (I hate them and well, it was day 8!) Guess what? I O'd on day 10! Can we say OOPS!?! It was perfect ovulation too. EW CM (which I rarely get) and everything. We even laid cuddling afterwards for about an hour.

Watch this be our month, just because the timing would be horrendous! (According to FF we'd be due two days after our wedding day!) And, I swear, if we do get pregnant, and ONE person says I told you so (about not trying and relaxing) I will slap them. Honestly we didn't do a thing different this cycle than we hadn't in the past.

I don't want to hope that I'm not, because if I am, then I'll feel guilty, especially if this isn't our sticky bean. I don't want to hope that I am because the timing is HORRIBLE. If we had gotten pregnant last month, we coulda worked around it, same with next month. This is the only month that's not really able to be worked around.

Sorry for my rant, I know I'm jumping to conclusions. But I'm scared. I just know we'll be pregnant, because that's just my luck.
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December 27th, 2008, 09:50 AM
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Oh no! I know it would be bad timing but part of me is really hoping it happens! I am sorry your body is doing crazy things though...who O's on CD 10? Either way I am sure it will work out fine. Let us know!
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December 27th, 2008, 10:28 AM
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Me too, but because of the timing, a larger part of me is hoping it isn't, and I already feel REALLY guilty for thinking that.

I would love for this to be it, because I want nothing more than to be a mother to a living child.

But this is the absolute worst timing possible...I'd really rather not get pregnant this month. It's not that this baby (if there is one) would be any less wanted...I don't know. Someone please tell me I'm not a horrible person for hoping that we're not this month.
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Nope you're not horrible at all! LOL.

BUt just keep in mind that the people who want this to NOT be their cycle, often do end up pregnant. LOL go ask some of the AIP people... Colleen in particular had this happen. They were on a break and the BOOM, prego!
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January 7th, 2009, 12:34 PM
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wow... if you do get pregnant it is total fate. And no- you wouldn't be any less of a loving mom for being a little aprehensive at the possibility of a baby due in your wedding week! I know if you are pregnant it'll work out, and you'll be a wonderful mommy.
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Thanks ladies! I'm still scared...my chart's not making any sense...getting ready to post a new thread.
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