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  #1  
February 11th, 2007, 06:32 AM
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Temp is 98.7 this morning but I guess that doesn't mean anything because I tested, BFN.
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February 11th, 2007, 07:58 AM
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The dreaded BFN But I'm a little skeptical due to the temp rise, you usually drop on day 13. I pray we will see another rise tomorrow. Are you getting a blood test tomorrow?
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February 11th, 2007, 08:38 AM
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It could be a bad test! Test tomorrow and get a blood test xxx
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February 11th, 2007, 09:32 AM
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I'm sorry hun...I really thought it would be a BFP today. Your chart is still exactly mirroring your preg. chart. (That could mean nothing, I know, but it's a heck of a coincidence.) I'm still praying that AF doesn't show and you get a BFP in the next day or so.


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February 11th, 2007, 10:25 AM
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I'll go get a blood test tomorrow.

I am so sad, I feel like just giving up.

I don't know what to do with myself. I don't know how this could be.
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February 11th, 2007, 11:38 AM
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Home tests arn't always accurate honey don't give upxxxx
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February 11th, 2007, 12:21 PM
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Sweetie I too have had a BFN turn into a BFP later...please hang in there & don't loose hope yet!
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February 11th, 2007, 02:44 PM
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I am just so confused...why is when I had a septum and Dh only had 3 million sperm we could get pg no problem...and now, now that everything is suppose to be "fixed", we can't get pg. 3 *$%# eggs, 40 million sperm stuck right there and it didn't work???? Seriously? It feels hopeless.

it's not fair. All I want is one. why is that asking to much of God? Why does he answer some people's [prayers and not ours? What makes other people so worthy or special??? what are we doing that's wrong?
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February 12th, 2007, 08:18 AM
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Norina! I know you're beyond frustrated with this. Let us know how the blood test goes. I'm keeping you in my prayers.
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February 12th, 2007, 10:08 AM
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it's not fair. All I want is one. why is that asking to much of God? Why does he answer some people's [prayers and not ours? What makes other people so worthy or special??? what are we doing that's wrong?[/b]
Norina,

I definitely know your frustration! These questions keep entering my mind. I wish I knew the answers. All I can say is to hang in there and keep praying.

Perhaps Beckie is right, maybe your bfn will turn into a bfp? Good luck on the blood test!

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February 12th, 2007, 10:35 AM
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Well spoke with the Nurse practicioner. She said that because of the clomid things will not be "normal" and that my AF being delayed is a big possiblity. She said I'll probably get it in a day or 2. But she did say urine tests "out there" are pretty accurate and that if it's negative it probably is. She said if I am anxious and want a finality to this then I can come in and do a blood test but their cut off is 10:30...which I can not make because I am an hour away. She offered to call in a blood test for me at another lab stat but the closet one I can find is still a little ways away. I'm just going to wait another day. If the temp is up again tomorrow I will just drive into the RE's office and get the ###### blood test. If it's down then it will mean that my Af will most likley come Wed. Happy *$%# valentines day to me...

I am in a really bad mood so if I sound like a ##### I apologize.
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February 12th, 2007, 11:02 AM
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Well, it sucks!!!! You are right to be angry - as you said, all those eggs, all the sperm and then BFN. It doesn't make any sense. I wish I could say "somebody is going to pay for this" like there has been a cosmic error or something. But no such luck. So, go on, be angry sweetie. I am right there with you. I think it is better to be angry than depressed anyway.

I guess you feel pretty down now but I know that you will find the strength to pick yourself up again. In the meantime, take care.

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February 12th, 2007, 01:34 PM
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Actually I am definitly angry AND depressed...thinking about those meds again...don't know how to get through this w/o something numbing me...and unfortuantely vodka is a no no right? JK...

Yesterday...had McDonalds for lunch, starbucks frappacino w/whip (usually don't get that), then pizza for dinner and a big brownie all to wallow!

Today I am starting a "fertility diet"...I ordered the book on amazon.

i also found an accupuncturist that specializes in fertility but DH had a cow at the cost...he compromised and said we can do it IF the Dr approves...

I am at work. Still no AF and doubt it will show today, temp is still to high. I just want this cycle over with already. I hate that life goes on when I am so miserable.

I am also consulting psychics...how pathetic am I?

Also, we were kinda thinking of taking a break on the IUI this month...not sure yet on that. Gonna talk to the Dr first and then decide.
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February 12th, 2007, 01:37 PM
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Oh honey I am sosorry I just can't believe it

Perhaps a break will be a good thing give you some time to recover xxx
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February 12th, 2007, 03:03 PM
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I'm so sorry, I know nothing anyone can say will help so just know I'm thinking of you right now
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February 12th, 2007, 03:46 PM
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Norina...I'm sorry that things didn't work out this time. I know I keep saying this but I really do think it's going to happen and soon.

You are in my thoughts and prayers,
Much love,
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