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February 19th, 2007, 07:29 PM
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I had an HSG done today. My right tube is blocked. My chances of getting pg just went down drastically. IVF may be are only option...or not since we don't have the money for that.

I am so sad right nwo. Tired. Sad. Defeated.

I will call the Re's office tomorrow and talk with the NP about this and see what she says. I read tehir is one procedure that might work but with my luck it won't.

"God's plan" plan must include messing with me to see how much I can take. This sucks.
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February 19th, 2007, 07:45 PM
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Oh honey I am so so sorry xxx
You don't deserve this it breaks my heart. But you can and you WILL have a baby I have faith.
Sending you many and many many many more energy vibes to help you out a little xxx
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February 19th, 2007, 09:54 PM
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My heart goes out to you and your DH. I also have faith that you will have a baby. You can borrow my positive vibes anytime as I know it can be hard to keep thinking so optimistically.
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February 20th, 2007, 08:05 AM
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I'm sorry you got hit with another challenge, Norina. In a way, I'm sure it's good to get some answers, but I know that's also got to multiply your frustration. I can't do anything to help get you pg, but I'm always here with an ear to listen and a shoulder to cry on.
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February 20th, 2007, 10:19 AM
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Hey Norina!

Sorry to hear this latest bit of news.

Remember the high fsh website I fwded to you? Do a search in the new high fsh forum for blocked tube. There are posts about how sometimes the tube isn't really blocked, rather the tube spasms during the hsg. Also, there are posts about how the opposite tube can catch the eggs from the ovary. So I guess even if that tube was blocked and you removed it, you still have hope with the other one.

Don't lose hope yet! All is not lost.
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February 20th, 2007, 02:04 PM
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You are really being tested. But thank goodness you asked for the HSG b/c now you have the opportunity to either fix it or start with a new plan. You just have to keep your faith girl. Did you ovulate from the right tube with this last cycle?
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February 20th, 2007, 04:30 PM
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Oh sweetie - you know how sorry I am to hear this. It just stinks! I can't believe yet again you have another obstacle in your way. I hope as you look further into this that perhaps instead of being a NEW obstacle it will be the catalyst to remove any further obstacle s& get you that much closer to being pg SOONER. I send you tons of love!
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February 20th, 2007, 05:14 PM
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Thank you ladies. Your support means so much! Wewannaminime, the NP told me about the spasming thing too. Last time, no it was my left that had 3 mature follicles so that doesn't solve that mystery...in regards to taht I really don't think the eggs released for whatever reason but rather disentergrated. Just a hunch I have I guess, no real evidence to prove that.

So I talked with the NP today at the RE's office. They haven't gotten the formal report back yet but she wanted to call and "put me at ease some" she said that more often then not a tube will spasm and appear closed. She said they will have a better idea of what's going on when they actually read the report. She said 1 tube is all we need and that even if the right is blocked we will go on and do the injectable meds next month. She said that they will monitor to make sure I am o-ing on the left side when we do the meds. She also said that a tubal recanalization (procedure to open it because I asked) isn't something the RE likes to do because it isn't all that successful (I read that) and also becaise of the spasming thing that they will get a woman into the OR open her up just to find that the tube isn't really blocked afterall but because she is now relaxed it's fine. So she'll call me and go over the results as soon as she gets them she said.

It was good at least to talk to her and hear not all hope is lost.
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February 21st, 2007, 06:31 AM
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I'm so sorry Norina. It's so unfair that there's something else standing in you way. On a positive note...I've known so many people that got pregnant with just one tube. And like you said, it might really be fine and unblocked anyway.
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February 21st, 2007, 09:50 AM
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I'm so glad that you got to talk to the NP. I'm also glad that she addressed the possibility of spasming. It sounds like you're in some good hands at that RE's office.
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February 21st, 2007, 03:30 PM
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February 23rd, 2007, 10:47 AM
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Norina,
I'm so sorry honey. And I'm sorry that I haven't been around to keep up to date with your efforts in TTC. Do you have any reason to think that you aren't ovulating from the other side? If not, then you have a pretty good chance of being able to conceive naturally. I know how hard it is to stay positive with dealing with dificulty TTC, but if you can find a way.....it will only help.

Hang in there!

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