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September 4th, 2009, 09:56 AM
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I'm getting closer to when I lost my bebe in the end of January. And I'm so nervous. No spotting or anything crazy like that I'm just super emotional. What milestone am I going to have to make it to in order to finally relax?!?!?! I've seen the heartbeat for the one twin, and the other passed. I'm almost 9wks. When can I relax? I lost Bebe at 10/11 wks, so after that I'll be okay, then I'll be worried again because the loss before DS stillbirth was 16wks, And then my son was bornstill at 28wks, I'm horribly scared. And I know more women who made it later and still had stillbirths. I'm just so nervous. I want to hibernate until I can go into labor.
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September 4th, 2009, 12:59 PM
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Are you on Pregnant After Loss (PAL), yet? Scoot yourself over there because they can and will support you thru this milestone and every one you come to. I haven't been blessed with another viable pregnancy but I'll be on PAL as soon as I do!!!

Good luck, sweetie!!!
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September 5th, 2009, 09:59 AM
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I am not sure there is a milestone that will make you feel better. This pg I have better period...and with Ds I NEVER felt better really. When you have experienced so much loss & read so many other stories you aren't naive anymore & you truly understand what can & does happen sometimes....and it makes it hard to not think of those things.

I am sorry you are stressing so much. That is soooooo normal given the circumstances. Just know that you are definitely NOT alone & that all we can do is try to enjoy whatever we can & have hope.
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