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September 7th, 2009, 08:17 AM
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my hpts have gotten progressively darker over the last 4 days. i'm 12 dpo today, but my bbs don't feel as big and sore as they did even before the + test. i keep playing with them and looking in the mirror, which of coure doesn't help. this was always the first sign the pg wasn't going to stick in my prior losses. i'm having cramping, but no spotting and still have weird taste in my mouth, gobs of lotiony cm, and a tiny bit of nausea. i want to be happy and relax, but i can't help worrying that something isn't right. calling doc for bw tomorrow after holiday.

anyone else notice bb changes like this and still have successful pg?
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September 8th, 2009, 08:39 AM
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HUGS sweetie, I have no answers for you, but I just wanted you to know that I did read your post. Hopefully some of the girls who've had babies after rpl can answer this for you
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September 8th, 2009, 03:48 PM
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thanks, tithen.
had first hcg drawn today - 162
repeating thursday
doc seemed happy with that number at this point
if on schedule, should have first u/s by end of next week

right now i'm tired, nauseous and still bad taste in mouth (popping tic-tacs constantly).

i guess because i only have bad experiences to compare to, i'm only focusing on the possibly bad things.

fingers crossed....
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September 10th, 2009, 08:43 AM
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I have had tons of symptoms come & go....in this pg & with Ds. It freaks us out due to our history but it is normal. I wish there was some way to know everyday that everything is fine....but there just isn't. Try to hang in there. Being pg with a history of loss can be a really challenging time emotionally. It is normal to worry over what each symptom means & then worry when it's gone too...LOL There is just no "winning" in that way for us.

Please let us knwo how your next #'s come out. It looks good from your 1st draw. Hang in there & keep hope!
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September 10th, 2009, 03:33 PM
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thanks, beck.
my 2nd hcg came back at 417 in less than 48 hours, so we're pretty happy about that. next test isn't until next wed and first u/s sched for thurs afternoon. it feels like forever away....
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Those numbers sound really good! I had a lot of symptoms come and go in the first trimester, i worried a lot but here i am almost in my 3rd trimester
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September 11th, 2009, 09:33 AM
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The numbers look really good!

I am the same way with my boobs. They have always my indicators that something was wrong...in 3 of my 4 losses. They would quit being sore, and then I would lose the baby. With this most recent pregnancy, I freaked out because my boobs were no longer sore...right around 7 weeks. I was so scared I was losing another baby. Luckily I had an u/s scheduled a couple days after the soreness went away....and there on the screen was a beautiful beating heart. My doctor then told me to stop worrying, b/c I now knew I could still be pregnant even if my boobs were not sore. Of course, the worrying about the pregnancy didn't stop, but this did ease my fears at least about the sore boobs. And to share positive news, that pregnancy resulted in a beautiful baby boy who was born two weeks ago today. I'll keep you in my T&P. Hope the next week goes by quickly.
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September 13th, 2009, 10:07 AM
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thanks for the support. i'm still worrying like crazy. wish dh understood more, but he doesn't even want to listen to me. next bw is sched for wed; hoping for # at least 3300...
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