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October 16th, 2009, 08:31 AM
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I got the worst news after my 32 week appt. We found out the ship my husband is going to is gone! That means he might have to leave in 2 weeks and not be back till March sometime! I just wanna break down and cry. We emailed the captain and are trying every way we can think of for him to be able to stay at least until i have Thayden. It just sucks cause we just moved here and I don't know anyone well enough that i would trust watching my girls while i had the baby. My mom lives in CA but she is still 4 1/2 hours away. I don't know what were going to do. Please say a prayer they let him stay home!

Oh another note, my appt went great. Uterus was right at 32, Thayden's heartrate was great. My bp was great as well. I've gained a total of 25lbs so far, and i'm hoping to not gain any more than then 35 they tell you too. I go back on the 28th for my 34 week appt. Then i'll get an u/s at 36 weeks to make sure hes head down, although he was aready head down at my appt.

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October 16th, 2009, 09:32 AM
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HUGS sweetie, I'll pray that they can figure something out so he can be there to see his baby boy be born!

And I'm glad the appt went well! Hopefully he stays headdown for you! Only 8 more weeks... how excited are you getting?
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October 16th, 2009, 11:08 AM
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That's great news about your appointment but sad news about your DH. I hope he will be able to stay.

If he cannot, could you talk to your doctor about being induced? That way your Mom could make a planned trip down to stay with you? Just a thought.
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October 16th, 2009, 12:17 PM
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Thats what i was thinking about doing asking to be induced, although i don't want to but if its what i gotta do then i'll do it. I just hope the dr will be willing to work with us.

I'm getting so excited! I'm sure he will come a few weeks before my due date cause both my girls were before. I think my body gets to the point it just won't grow anymore lol. I'm hoping he is here around 38 weeks!!!!

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October 16th, 2009, 04:27 PM
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I have so btdt! OMG I can totally feel your pain on this one. Dh & I are Navy vets. In fact I met dh when I was in the Navy. He missed the birth of our 2nd ds because his CO wouldn't let him come home early. I still get pissed about it. He was due to be discharged from the Navy June 29. Kaelan was due June 15 and he had 30 days leave on the books and they wouldn't let him use it. He wound up getting paid for it and missing the birth of our ds. It was really, really hard for me and I had a lot of resentment issues with dh for a long time about it for not being more aggressive about getting time off. Anyhow, I wanted to offer my support because I truly know what you are going through. I am glad your appt went well. Does your dh have any leave he can take? When is he scheduled to transfer? If he has leave on the books maybe he can take that and maybe you can get a sympathetic doctor willing to induce as well. (((Hugs)))

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October 16th, 2009, 04:49 PM
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Thank you He does have leave not sure how many days. We are waiting to hear back from that crew on if he can stay behind until i have the baby. I'll update more as i find it out. It just sucks.....he missed the birth of our first DD but was here for the second. I just didn't think that he would be gone, i'm more shocked than anything!

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October 17th, 2009, 12:40 PM
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Oh sweetie I am so sorry this has come up - especially all of a sudden like this. I can only imagine how stressed it is making you right now. If you can't work this out, could your mom come stay with you for a few weeks perhaps? How predictable was your labor last time? Like for instance, with Ds I did loose my mucus plug the week before labor. I knew it, but the Dr said it could be more time...this time around I think I will be able to read my body's signs better, as the discomfort became MUCH more intense, etc. I am betting I will be able to tell at least within a few days BEFORE I go into labor that it is coming. I just wasn't sure how uncomfortable (closer to miserable LOL) I was supposed to get before delivery....LOL

I am glad your appt went well & baby is thriving. I am sure that somehow here you will find an answer...it is just so dang frustrating in the process of figuring out what will work. I will say a few prayers that what happens is that Dh can be with you!
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October 17th, 2009, 10:42 PM
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My labor with Isis was a total shock lol, i went to my 39 week appt and they checked me and i was 3cm and right after he checked me i had my bloody show, went to the hospital and had her that night lol. With Athena i was 38 weeks, we DTD and about 10 min later i went into labor lol and had her that evening. But i also went into pre term labor with Athena and was 4cm from 32 weeks till 38. I'm trying to get my parents to come down here so my dad can stay with the girls and my mom can be with me, i'm going to ask the Dr's at my appt on the 28th if they will induce me the week my parents are here if DH cannot stay home.

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