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September 8th, 2011, 09:55 AM
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I knew that as October got closer I would get more and more terrified. Well, one of my friends just told me that she wants me to have my baby October 16th. I am honestly terrified of going past the 15th...or delivering on the 15th. The 15th, as most if not all of you ladies know is Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Day. Since I am not great at remembering things, I don't really want to remember each of my babies with their own dates. Personal choice. Since my first loss, I make October 15th special for my angels. They have candles lit all day. I will be doing this until the day I die. I want that to continue to be a special day saved for my angels. Since I have always saved that day to fully grieve my babies I don't want my rainbow baby's birthday to be near it so one overshadows the other. It is just getting so hard.

Also, I am terrified of stillbirth now. It is a reoccurring nightmare that I find out that she is gone on the 15th adding another angel to my family...hence me wanting to have her in my arms before that date.
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September 8th, 2011, 10:13 AM
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*hugs* I hope you go before then!
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September 9th, 2011, 05:20 AM
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The day before is an Awesome day for a Birthday. My family would know, both my sister and I decided that day was good for a birthday. LOL

I know your fears hun *hugs* I know there are certain days that I don't want to give birth ( the twins loss date or edd, anyone elses birthday etc) and if I can prevent it (induction/c-section) I will!
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September 20th, 2011, 12:11 PM
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*hugs* I hadn't thought about that myself. I don't want to deliver past 38 weeks myself since my youngest came at 38w even and her placenta was already deteriorating. (I'll be 38w on Oct. 18th) but at the rate things are progressing now, I'm just hoping I make it to 36.5 weeks.

I don't think the fear of stillbirth will go away until she is born. We've all experienced too much and unless you've been there, it is hard to really understand our fears. I have you in my thoughts as you get further. *HUGE HUGS*
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