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December 8th, 2011, 01:42 PM
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Last night I gave birth to a beautiful baby boy at 17 weeks. The experience was positive and I feel blessed to have had him. I wish it was a different situation and he was alive and well but I feel that we made the right choice to have him now instead of waiting. He was very cute - honestly, I didn't expect him to be that cute. You could see the abnormalities that were present on the u/s and the nurse pointed out to me a couple of facial features that were abnormal; for example, wide set eyes, low ears, and a flat nose. We kept him in the room overnight with us and spent some time with him. He is much loved and will always be in our hearts.
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December 8th, 2011, 05:31 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm glad that it was a positive experience, though.
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December 8th, 2011, 06:46 PM
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I'm so sorry for the loss of your son.
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December 8th, 2011, 07:03 PM
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I am so deeply sorry for the loss of your precious son. Glad that you are able to spend time with him and say goodbye. Hugs momma.
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December 8th, 2011, 07:45 PM
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Oh kimberly I'm soooo sorry. *sob*

I am glad you got to spend one night with your son, even under the circumstances. I hope you find some peace in the weeks to come.

Did you and your husband give him a name?
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December 8th, 2011, 08:17 PM
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I am so very sorry for the loss of your son.
How nice you were able to spend the night with him.
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December 9th, 2011, 09:59 AM
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I'm so very sorry. You and your husband are in my thoguhts.
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December 9th, 2011, 10:11 AM
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Lots of thoughts and prayers heading your way. It is good to hear that you got to spend time with him.
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December 9th, 2011, 10:46 AM
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Did you and your husband give him a name?
Yes, DH decided to call him Joshua.

Thank you all for your thoughts and kind words.
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Miscarriage at 10 weeks - February 14, 2009
Miscarriage of twin boys at 11 weeks - September 21, 2009
Chemical pregnancy - January 9, 2010
Miscarriage at 10 weeks - April 21, 2010
Miscarriage at 7 weeks - October 22, 2010
Miscarriage at 10 weeks - May 14, 2011
Miscarriage at 17 weeks - December 7, 2011 (My sweet little Joshua had Achondrogenesis type 2)
Miscarriage at 5 weeks - June 5, 2013

All test results normal. Reason for RPL unknown.

Annabel born healthy at 35 weeks - May 22, 2014
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December 10th, 2011, 09:38 AM
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Prayers for you, your family and your beautiful Angel Joshua.
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December 15th, 2011, 08:30 PM
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So sorry for your loss
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December 19th, 2011, 12:55 PM
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Oh no, I'm so deeply sorry to hear this. Gigantic hugs to you!
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December 19th, 2011, 03:43 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss.
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