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ok, well i was a little worried about this after i gave birth but that was 18 months ago,
and i honestly say that i still have not found my drive !
i love dh very much, and i dont know what to say,
has anyone else gone through this? should i do or can i do anything about this?[/b]
Well, the good news is it's very common..
The bad news is, there are probably many factors influencing you...
1-Body Image-If you're having problems with your body image-its going to affect your bedroom relationship.
2-If you're breastfeeding-Its been known to affect your bedroom relationship.
3-Medications-If you're on any-it can affect your bedroom relationship
5-Fear's-If you are scared of getting pregnant again, or if you had some personal trauma during the birthing process.. that also can affect things..
The best advice I can give you right now, without knowing what is going on with you personally.. Is to tell you to step a few steps back, and to evaluate your situation.. Do any of the above apply to you?
If you think any of the above things are bothering you-then we can go from there..
I just wanted to let you know that it IS very common, and its usually VERY easy to *fix*
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Vivi~I'm right there with you! I have NO sex drive whatsoever anymore. I honestly think I could go the rest of my life without sex! LOL!! I know that being so exausted is the main reason, but even when I'm caught up on sleep it's the same thing! My poor DH is always asking why I never want sex anymore....
i went through the same thing and still going through it. i think it might of been my bc i got off of it a couple of months ago then got a yeast infection. and now i feel as if its coming back. good luck