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My inlaws and I are constantly arguing about DF's time. He goes to a college 4 hours from our town. He only comes down about once every other week. for the last 4 years everytime he comes down to visit it's a big battle over how he spends his time. I think I'm important and his family pulls the "We're your blood" card. Even while I was pregnant he spent the night at his mom's more than my house. And after the baby was born, he slept at his mom's a LOT more than my house. He said his mom missed him.
So every year we argue about the same thing. Where's DF sleeping this week?
My MIL live 3 blocks away from my house, so when I moved recently to this house I tought It will be hell. But it HASNT at all. I decided to be clear with her, put limits and she had respect them, but I recognize also that she is very annoying, and with the age she is acting worse LOL.
I try to stay calmed everytime she says things that irritate me, and honestly I do feel better knowing that Im putting all my effort in not creating conflicts in the family, but that doesnt mean that she can say or do whatever she wants to, without being rude you can establish your rules.