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October 13th, 2008, 07:37 PM
lilflower
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I can't stand her! I really can't. I know my parents aren't the best ILs but geez! Atleast they are nice and polite to my DH. DH and I have had our bumps in the road and almost everyone knew about them. My MIL thinks we need to get a post-nuptial agreement. And DH is using everything she said to back it up. I don't "disagree" with a post-nuptial, but she makes it sound like we will most DEFINITELY be ending in a divorce. I am currently TTC and not too recently lost our son at 28wks. She has the worst timing. When she came up in July she actually said that she would prefer to not see her granddaughter as much if she had to see me at the same time! Are you kidding me? I'm her freaking mom, of course I'm going to around! I in the end sucked it up and went home for a visit while she came up here. We have some bad history between us but don't you think that we should BOTH suck it up. Once a while back, my DH and I split up for a while, and she refused to give me my DD, I called the police and made them make her give her back to me. So ever since then she's just been a B*tch. Now, I didn't have to call the police, but I sure wasn't going to let her keep my child away from me. But my Dh thinks that I need to suck it up and be the bigger person. Please tell me why I need to be the bigger person more than somebody over half my age needs to grow up??? GRR.
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October 14th, 2008, 07:42 AM
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OMG! I cannot believe that she wouldn't give your daughter back! I don't think I could get over that for a long time, if ever! I don't really have any advice, sorry. Good luck with the crazy lady.
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October 14th, 2008, 08:45 AM
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Wow! You are a package deal whether she likes it ir not. I wouldn't give in to her. If she actually doesn't care enough about her granddaughter to suck it up and play nice then she doesn't deserve to see her. I would be afraid to not be there in case she tries filling her head with lies about you. Good luck with that one! Hugs!
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