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I blame MIL. I've tried for years now to make an effort to have a friendly relationship with her but she just turns away from it. I've all but given up. I do at times also blame DH as he won't always stand up to his mother in my defence.
mil and fil COMPLETELY. i always figured i wouldn't like them but i went into meeting them w/ an open mind, and was actually pleasantly surprised by them at first (despite the fact that we have completely differing interests and morals). i thought his mom liked me, but evidently she was faking it. their given reasons for hating me are: (his mother) i talk about my diet too much (i'm vegan and i only answer questions when asked); (his father) over tgiving i sat in the attached dining room instead of next to DH's ex on the loveseat (she's been threatening to beat me up since high school - we're almost 30 now).
eta: MIL was vicious to DH's self-esteem as a youth and he's still screwed up about it so he doesn't defend me either.
I agree with twinmom, I blam my sil, she seems to have just kissed there arse the whole time and they expected me to do it but when I put my foot down they just didn't like the idea of me being independant, and I also think they think I took there baby boy who did everything they wanted from them...