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August 14th, 2006, 11:52 PM
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I am so sick of him. My SO works with him (got him a job where he works), and has to drive him to and from work everyday. That's an extra 15 minutes each way. He DOES pay us $70 every 2 weeks though. But my SO asked me to look for apartments for him to move closer today, and I did. I printed it out off the printer and everything. Then a while later, my SO phoned while at work again, and asked me if I could also look for the web camera and the installation cd for it for his brother. So I did, but I could only find the camera. When SO and BIL came over, we all looked for the installation cd. BIL said "I'll look in this junk over here." He was referring to a basket we keep on the counter for odds and ends, like pens and pencils, and scrap paper. And then he looked over on our kitchen table, which has books, SO's laptop, toys, and other things on it. BIL says "Maybe if you guys cleaned up your house you'd be able to find things." I was like... excuse me?! I was fuming. Oh I was choked. How DARE he say that! It's kind of hard to clean our house (which isn't as bad as it has been before) when SO works 10 hour days at work, and I have to hold Amber that entire time (cause she's in a clingy stage). SO says "Well then clean it up for us." BIL said "No, I wouldn't touch it. It isn't MY house." I went and took the paper I printed for him and tore it up. I was soooo mad. I still am. I'm NEVER doing him any favours again. A while ago, because he borrowed our Playstation and then sold it for weed, I told SO that he was never allowed in our house again. But then SO told me that while I was out of town one night, that his brother was spending the night. I told him it was okay. I was very nervous though, because he used to steal money from his own brother. I'm just so sick and tired of all his crap. I wish my SO could trade his family in. LOL. Anyways, that's my rant. Thanks for reading.
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August 15th, 2006, 08:18 AM
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I'm sorry, that must be so frustrating to have to deal with. I would have been furious if someone had made a comment like that about my house being clean or not, that's just rude!
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August 17th, 2006, 01:00 PM
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I wouldn't allow him in my home again. weather I was outta town and SO was lonley I would be like deal cause I dont want him in my home... that was just flat out RUDE... I am sorry your going through that, we all here for you... <hugs>
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