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January 9th, 2010, 03:24 AM
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we found out yesturday our baby stopped growing at 8 weeks..we're heartbroken and just not sure about things..I guess the biggest thing for us is why did both our babies die at 8 weeks?..I wish i had answered but im sure we'll never know
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January 9th, 2010, 05:35 AM
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Oh no! I'm so sorry! I know the heartache all too well (I lost mine at 11 wks)! If you EVER need anything, just ask, PM me, whatever. Please know though that your thyroid did NOT cause this. I know I went through some guilt with that... don't know if you are but I thought you could be.

Don't know if you have heard or not but we're doing a pg loss study on Christian Parenting board (we start Monday) if you want to join us... http://www.justmommies.com/forums/f4...n-up-here.html (Pregnancy Loss Bible Study Info & Sign-Up Here). This study helped me tremendously through my loss so I wanted to share it with all of JM as well, hoping it will help another the way it helped me.

I am so sorry!

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January 9th, 2010, 05:46 AM
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thanks..i might check it out monday..i am blaming myself..my thyroid and my body..i guess its just the fact that i lost both babies at 8 weeks..like my body wasnt giving baby what he/she needed..im feeling this loss alot more then before,..
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January 11th, 2010, 08:18 AM
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I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. You shouldn't blame yourself though. It's just one of those things that happen. It wasn't meant to happen right now and something else is in the plans for you. I know when I lost my first (I was 14 weeks) it hurt so bad. It had taken up 3 years to get pregnant and then to lose it - it was heartbreaking. But I got pregnant again 3 months later and had my first baby 9 months later. She is such a blessing. So, don't look at this as something sad. Just look at it as an experience that wasn't meant to be right now. I hope you have another blessing come your way soon.

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January 11th, 2010, 09:05 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss.

Do you have hashi's? If so have them test you for anti-phospholipid syndrome. It is a clotting disorder that can develop in people with auto-immune problems. If we decide to get pregnant again I am going to be tested for it since we don't know why Colm died.
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January 11th, 2010, 09:40 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss.

Do you have hashi's? If so have them test you for anti-phospholipid syndrome. It is a clotting disorder that can develop in people with auto-immune problems. If we decide to get pregnant again I am going to be tested for it since we don't know why Colm died.
Can they test/Will it be too late to test if you are already pg??? I' not pg yet but I refuse to do anymore MA until July so if I got pg between now & then... would it be okay to test in the early stages of pg?

Krista, I didn't know you had a m/c before. But what an amazing story!
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January 12th, 2010, 09:19 PM
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I've had 2 that I've known of. My 2nd was a ruptured ectopic pregnancy. I was 5 weeks pregnant with that one.
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January 13th, 2010, 06:59 AM
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My sincere condolences.

I've read that the majority of early MC is caused by chromosome problems and has nothing to do with your body or your thyroid, sometimes nature gets it wrong. Please don't feel guilty in your grief. *Hugs*
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January 13th, 2010, 02:02 PM
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I'm very sorry for your loss. I agree with the other ladies its not fair to blame yourself you are hurting and will take sometime to heal but beating yourself up isn't good for you. Hugs.
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