with my first i SO wanted a girl b/c of the way the sperm donor was i did not want another HIM running around ...you know.....
with this Trisha wasn't planned BUT i SO wanted a boy b/c of the way my hubby is with his daughter i DID NOT / (and refuse) to have him do the same with her,i have already set both him & his daughter streight about that
15 yrs apart is not my choice... but i won't change a thing