I am pregnant with my 3rd after 11 years, and I had thought I would kind of be showing even though I am only 9 weeks now. My sister had a gap between her 2nd and 3rd of 12 years and she said it was like being pregnant the first time. Had she not told us she was pregnant, I probably would have guessed it until she was about 14 or 15 weeks along. The only other thing I recall her mentioning was that her doctor told her that having one after so long is like having your first (as far as length of labor) - lucky for her she had my nephew in 4 hours