[Lucia_mommy]

I was just wondering to the mommies of widely spaced siblings; did you intend for the age difference to be wide(r than normal) or did you prefer it to be closer but it didn't happen for whatever reason? I was just curious

[CBTECH]

I never planned on having my kids close together or wide apart. I just knew I wanted to be done before I was 30, so however it happened it happened.

[wanting#2]

I orignally planned about 4 years apart and thought I would be done by 30. However a divorce, going back to school, new marriage, miscarriage and PCOS have all delayed that so now I will be almost 34 when this lo is born and the kids will be 14 years apart.

[Lucia_mommy]

Nice to hear! I didn't consciously plan either, but it was handier. I was only a teen with my first, and while DH was older, he wwasn't very stable job-wise yet, so we waited until he was and until we could buy a proper house until we had the second