Maybe you could have Dakota help you, you could take her shopping for bedding and tell her she can pick out the bedding that she thinks Skyla will like, that way, if she does pick out the baby princess theme, it'll go with her room. But she can help so she doesn't think that the baby is taking over.
If you're worried about the room looking good if you have the money, maybe you could switch the whole theme to spots/stripes/anything you want. and get Dakota to change her bedding as well. It might be fun for Dakota to know that she and her baby sister will be using the same kind of bedding.
Hope that helps!
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