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I don't even know where to begin or what I'm feeling. We have been TTC since May and we have had no luck. I had a chemical pregnancy in August and BFN for the rest. I really am starting to think there is something wrong with me. I have two boys and I got pregnant with them both very easily. One while I was on birth control and the other on the first try after stopping the pill so I'm getting worried that there is something wrong with me. I really wanted a summer baby and so I stopped the pill in April in case it took a few months but I've had nothing but dissapointments. It's just very upsetting and then sometimes I feel guilty because I should be happy that I have two healthy boys. What is wrong with me?
I'm sorry sweetie, I don't know what to tell you! One thing I know though, is NEVER feel guilty about your emotions. Emotions are never "wrong." It is perfectly fine for you to be sad about having trouble conceiving even though you already have children. And this is coming from someone who doesn't have any children yet!
It has nothing to do with how much you love your sons or your life, its completely seperate. Just don't let it rule your life ALL the time. Have some alone time to let yourself feel what you feel about TTC. And don't feel bad about it Im sure every woman on this board has felt worried, sad, or worried about how sad they are. Its all a part of life. I hope I helped
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Ditto to ThePastorsWife. 6 months or even longer is perfectly normal, even though it didn't take so long with your other children. And don't feel guilty...There is nothing wrong with the way you are feeling!
oh honey.. dont ever feel guilty for how you feel.. people have said to me.. you have two healthy children Bea so what if you never get pregnant again.. are they serious.. just because we already have children doesn't stop our desire for wanting more.. and wanting it just as much as we did with our other two children
dont give up or think thereis something wrong with you.. sometimes it just takes a little longer.. I too have been trying fora bit with no success, but I am in no way stopping .. .listening to others views of me being lucky.. heck I know I am lucky.. I feel blessed but I want more.. I hope you get that bfp you deserve very soon sweetie