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January 25th, 2010, 06:13 PM
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Mommy to Matthew
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Well, this is just a vent and you ladies are the only ones I know who will understand. So I go on Facebook a few minutes ago and not one but TWO of my friends have posted their wives' ultrasounds. Of course, I'm very excited for them, but darn it, I want it to be me!!!! OK, vent over, thanks for reading! I just needed to write it out I think.
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 Thank you SO MUCH, Chelsea (GraysMama) for my awesome new siggie! Forever Missing Our Angel, Matthew, born still 7/1/10 at 0820. Mommy and Daddy Love You and Miss You, Matthew
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January 25th, 2010, 06:15 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Massachusetts
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Jacque I understand exactly how you are feeling. Its ok to feel like that. Your day is going to come soon. Hugs sweetie!
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January 25th, 2010, 06:49 PM
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Mother, Crafter, OT
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Location: NY
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i know hun, that will be you one day too. it seems like everytime i talk to my mother or a friend that i find out ANOTHER person i know is pg... its hard... i know
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January 25th, 2010, 07:15 PM
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Super Mommy
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I totally know the feeling. When my Bestie called me and told me she was pregnant I forced myself to sound happy and then cried when I got off the phone.
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January 25th, 2010, 07:16 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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 I know how you feel. It's a terrible feeling. I wish having a baby was as simple as wanting one.
My cousin was hinting the other day and I have a feeling if she's not pregnant yet she is planning on being soon. She literally got pregnant on the first try with her four previous pregnancies (although her first one was a miscarriage). It is really hard for me b/c I can't imagine just being able to *count* on getting pregnant right away without hardly trying.
I do think though, that having to wait awhile does make you appreciate your pregnancy and your baby all the more when it finally happens. Not a day goes by that I don't look at my son and realize what a complete miracle he is.
Your day WILL come and you will be a wonderful mommy and soo in love with your baby!
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January 25th, 2010, 07:29 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I am so sorry hun. That will be you one day!!!
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January 25th, 2010, 07:33 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I know what you are saying about facebook. i swear that everytime i log in someone new is having a baby, its almost enough to make me not want to go one. If i wasnt addicted to it i wouldnt haha
That will be us some day which is the only thing that gets me through it
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January 26th, 2010, 05:10 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I understand!
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January 26th, 2010, 05:16 AM
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Emily-Mom to Keller Henry
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Soon you'll be posting baby bump pictures too!! I totally understand though, there are literally 8-10 friends I have on there that are having a baby soon..it's CRAZY! U/S pics, bump pics, baby pics...all the time. I haven't been trying here long enough to be super jealous - but I still get a twinge. I want my bump back 
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January 26th, 2010, 05:31 AM
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Formerly TTC#1inNC
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Location: North Carolina
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Quote:
Originally Posted by kenzienrylansmommy
I totally know the feeling. When my Bestie called me and told me she was pregnant I forced myself to sound happy and then cried when I got off the phone.
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Same here! Except she texted me, so I texted back congrats, I am glad sarcasm can't go thru texts LOL. Happy for her but it is still hard.
Hopefulmommy - your time will come, I know it!
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January 26th, 2010, 07:09 AM
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Loving my pregnancy!!!
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Montreal
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Quote:
Originally Posted by wishfulgal
I do think though, that having to wait awhile does make you appreciate your pregnancy and your baby all the more when it finally happens. Not a day goes by that i don't look at my son and realize what a complete miracle he is.
Your day will come and you will be a wonderful mommy and soo in love with your baby!
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i totally agree about appreciating our future baby more than those who get a bfp after their 1st try.
Jacque, i feel the same way. Soon it will be you and me and everyone else in this thread who'll be envied!
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January 26th, 2010, 07:35 AM
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Super Mommy
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Oh it is so hard sometimes to be happy for others when your heart longs for what they already have. I went this last weekend to see a friend that had just given birth to twins. It was hard, but I am happy for her. My sister in law and her husband got pregnant in 7 days with their second. With their first we were pregnant also, but lost. She was not understanding or supportive of us at all and was in her own world of happiness. The harder we strive for the something, the greater the victory is in the end. Our day will come soon. Chin up!
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January 26th, 2010, 03:47 PM
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Mommy to Matthew
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Thanks ladies! I was just having a rough day I guess. DH and I just keep talking about "when we have kids" and I don't want thast to just be a date sometime in the future....I want it to be NOW!  Well, here's to October babies!!!! 
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Thank you SO MUCH, Chelsea (GraysMama) for my awesome new siggie! Forever Missing Our Angel, Matthew, born still 7/1/10 at 0820. Mommy and Daddy Love You and Miss You, Matthew
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January 26th, 2010, 05:17 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Hey Jacque, I totally understand how you are feeling. I still get upset when I hear about friends getting pregnant and when they just barely start trying too. It makes it even harder for us when we have had a m/c. Lets just keep it in our prayers to have October babies. Good luck to you. I pray that you will have a BFP soon enough. Baby Dust to you!!
Jana
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January 26th, 2010, 08:13 PM
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Veteran
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Join Date: Jan 2010
Location: Edmonton,AB, Canada
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I agree...Facebook sucks for that. My friend just posted her ultrasound pics up today. We would have both been around the same due date if my pregnancy wasn't a CP. So I texted her to say congrats because like one of the ladies said sarcasm doesn't go through texts and they can't see you crying while you text. Hang in there and I'm praying for you.
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Me (Michelle)-33, Wife to Rawn 34, mom to Micah born November 22,2007
TTC#2 since June 2008
Did Puregon and IUI from June 2008 - Dec.2008
Began process of testing and getting ready for IVF w/ICSI Feb.2009
Did first IVF w/ICSI in May. MC June 2009
Did IVF with FET Oct 2009 and had CP
Begin taking BCP on May 7 for IVF
Lupron injections on May 15
Gonal-F & Menupor on May 28
Retrieval on June 7, 5 day transfer w/2 embryo's on June 12
June 21-4 weeks pregnant!! Praying for heartbeat at 7 week ultrasound
July 12-We are having twins! Two strong heartbeats. Thank you God.
Jan 13,2011-Marcus and Caleb were born.
 
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