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March 12th, 2005, 09:42 PM
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alright we went to get a blood test today and the ob was closed so we just went to the walk in clinic and the dr there kept telling me to get a urine test. NOOO!!! I didn't pay 10 bucks copay for a freakin' test i could take at home. I told him no I wanted a blood test. Well tehn we got it and I was waiting for the results and the nurse told the girl at the front desk the answer first. THAT IS NONE OF HER BUSINESS!!!! I told her to tell the dr not to tell me outloud to write it down bc i didn't wanna cry bc i knew it was negitive you know bc that chick ruined it for me. well then the dr said that it could take me 2 years b4 i could conceive my first and then i could get tested and dh too to be sure everything is alright. I was like We already have one everything is alright with us. He said maybe not you COULD more than likely have secondary infertility. That scared the crap out of me. I was like WHAT!!!!! Then I just cried my eyes out. And he told ANDY not me that he was gonna write a perscription for something to calm me down. I looked at him and said I will be alright!!! So anyways BFN!!!
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March 12th, 2005, 09:45 PM
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Hun first off *hugs* second off I HIGHLY doubt it's secondary infertility, the dr and the wohle office sound like A- holes! It's just going to take time
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March 13th, 2005, 01:27 AM
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aww hun so sorry that doc sounds horriable i hope it happens for u real soon hun
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March 13th, 2005, 07:03 AM
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Brooke,

I'm so sorry hun! I know this is difficult. Lean on your husband and give that beautiful little girl of yours a big hug. The unprofessional care you received there should be told to someone!
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March 13th, 2005, 07:09 AM
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I am so sorry that you had to go threw that. Have to wait 2 years no I wouls be back at my ob DR and ask him and not go back to the clinic!!!! Good Luck we all know how stressful this can be and are here for you.
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March 13th, 2005, 07:54 AM
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You would think a good bedside manner would be a requirement to graduate med school but I guess not. There are always doctors out there who think they are god and that they know everything. I have had 3 really bad experiences with the medical profession one was the nurse who cared for me after my 1st daughter was born, the 2nd was a doctor who cared for my oldest when she was in the hospital once, and the third was the lady who did the sonogram on my 2nd daughter. It really hurts since the fact that your at the doctors means your in a vulnerable situation anyway. I would go over what happened with your reg doctor and of course never go back there again. I'm sure there is some way to file a complaint I would do that too because they have probably done stuff like that to many other people and most people just let it go which is why they still have a job and were able to do it to you. I'm sorry you got a bfn and more sorry that you had to hear it from jerks like them. Good luck!
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March 13th, 2005, 07:56 AM
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Wow, I can't believe they treated you like that! I would be totally pissed! Places like that shouldn't even be in business! I agree with Shelly-- you should report it to the manager there, or the local medical association. I'm sure you don't have secondary infertility, so stay positive, and never go there again!!!
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March 13th, 2005, 09:04 AM
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Iam so sorry hun,and I dont think there is anything wrong just needs time.You havent even been trying long enough for them to state that there might be a problem.I would never go there again there seem like a bunch of stupid A-holes.Good Luck,I know it will happen before long hun.
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March 13th, 2005, 10:13 AM
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So sorry!!! {{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}
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March 13th, 2005, 01:33 PM
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Thanks ladies! I am just frustrated with the WHOLE DR thing. He was just a jerk. And to tell you the truth I think that the nurse could be fired for breaking patient confidentiality.
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