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June 9th, 2011, 01:48 PM
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So, I'm a 36 single female. I am not in a conventional relationship. But, I want a baby of my own more than anything. I am the single mother of a 13 year old boy who was placed in my custody when he was a year old. He is my heart and I love him dearly but he is not "mine". I want to know the feeling of finding out I'm pregnant. I want to cry when I see the first ultrasound. I want to be amazed by that first kick and I want to experience the pain of childbirth.

I have found someone that I care deeply for who is willing to help me with my little "project". In exchange I have drawn up papers releasing him from any responsibilities both financial and parental UNLESS he wants to.

So, I have an appointment with my OBGYN to make sure everything is good to go and then I will embark on my pregnancy journey. I am both scared and elated. Scared that it just might not happen for me and elated at the possibility that it will.
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June 9th, 2011, 02:12 PM
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Amazing story i just wanted to wish you all the best and hope you get your bfp soon,i think its great what you are doing if i wasnt in a relationship now i would do the same thing keep me updated good luck x
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June 9th, 2011, 04:59 PM
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Best wishes! I hope your partner wants to be a part of his child's life, though; not because you would need him, but because your child will most likely want a daddy too. But however it works out, I think it is great that you are going to try have a baby and that it all turns out for the best!
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June 9th, 2011, 06:54 PM
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How exciting and best of luck to you! Will you be doing iui or in home insemination? Hope you don't mind me asking.
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June 9th, 2011, 08:38 PM
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Wow! Congrats on begining your journey! I look forward to hearing updates and wish you all the best!
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June 9th, 2011, 09:04 PM
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Just wanted to say good luck!!
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June 10th, 2011, 03:31 AM
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June 10th, 2011, 06:45 AM
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Good Luck. Hope you get your BFP soon.
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June 10th, 2011, 09:55 AM
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Just wanted to say good luck!
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June 10th, 2011, 12:40 PM
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I spoke with my OBGYN today and will begin pre-natal vitamins now. They assured me that I am on the "cusp" for being considered at risk. Talking to them put my mind at ease.

My donor and I will be doing this the "conventional" way. He has the "choice" to be a part of the childs life but is not obligated in any way.

I appreciate your support. I'm not telling many friends as I am worried as to what their response might be.
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June 10th, 2011, 07:33 PM
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The best of luck.
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