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September 20th, 2011, 09:24 AM
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I'm 15 dpo (or so I think)...AF is now 2 days late. I have no symptoms of anything (AF or pregnancy). My bbs were very sore and tender/achy around my armpits which is odd but not impossible to have as an approaching AF but that has disappeared now too. No crramps. Nothing. I'm really tired but then again thats also not unheard for me as I LOVE my sleep
Anyways, I got my ICs in th mail yesterday and used one of the first HPTs this morning after about 6-7 hrs of sleep. But NOTHING. A stark white as snow BFN. Ugh! WTH is wrong with me??? I am NEVER late! Why does this have to happen when I'm TTC??! I feel like crying. I'm getting really discouraged. I wouldnt even be so upset as to see AF right now...just as long as I know the wait is over and a new cycle has begun. I know I'm out...by now I'd be getting a BFP, at least on the sensitive as hell ICs. But the stupid has to screw with me and get into my head and get me all emotional
I'm sorry--I needed to vent. When I tell S/O about it he just says "I'm sorry babe. Theres always next cycle." I know he means well but he just isnt grasping my frustrations
Ok...sorry. Vent over. Thx for listening
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September 20th, 2011, 09:28 AM
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I'm so sorry!!! I know the feeling, I'm kinda opposite as the seems to be here early for me. I hope you get things figured out soon...its hard trying to figure out WTH is going on!!
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September 20th, 2011, 09:28 AM
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TTC is very stressful hun and stress definitely impacts your cycles. I was a week late last month when I never am normally. My advice to you would be to stop testing and just wait it out, all those BFN's are too discouraging. If you're a week late and AF doesn't show, call your DR and ask for bloodwork. Good luck hun!
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September 20th, 2011, 09:29 AM
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Is there a chance that you ovulated later than normal?? I'm sorry! I know it's hard to wait and try to figure out what's going on.
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September 20th, 2011, 09:32 AM
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I thought that my AF was late, but it turned out that I Od late (according to my chart). So now I am about 11dpo and testing tomorrow. I am usually a 28 day cycle girl and this one is on cd35. So it is possible that you you Od late and now you are in the 2ww
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September 20th, 2011, 10:14 AM
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WTH is wrong with me??? I am NEVER late! Why does this have to happen when I'm TTC??!
TTC is so stressful, whether you realize it consciously or not. And that stress can totally delay ovulation and make your cycles longer. Our bodies can be so cruel.

Hang in there. I hope you get your BFP or AF (hopefully the former) very soon.
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September 20th, 2011, 11:04 AM
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I agree with lilemma as I am also late with bfn but I ovulated late this cycle and also only 11dpo which can still be to early to show positive. Fingers crossed. Hope you get your answer soon.
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September 20th, 2011, 11:29 AM
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Thanks everyone for the encouragment
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September 20th, 2011, 12:23 PM
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I hope you just O'ed late and that's why you're not getting your BFP!
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September 20th, 2011, 02:08 PM
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Same here; a couple of cycles ago when I started temping, I stressed about my temps so much that I delayed Oing and af by 6 days!! So you could have very well Oed late... Sorry things are looking so bleak now. I know how it is! And like you said, DHs mean well, but they don't truly understand. They aren't battling with these mothering hormones! Hang in there!!
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September 20th, 2011, 02:35 PM
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I agree with the other ladies... it is totally stressfull and don't be sorry for venting! WE all need to do it from time to time. Im also 14or 15dpo and getting a BFN and having no symptoms of AF. I usually have long cycles though so it wouldnt be out of the ordinary for her to show her ugly face soon!

Hope you get your BFP soon!

And my DH is the same way... sometimes i feel like im the only one truly let down when i see that BFN even though I know he wants it bad too. In fact, my DH thinks that because AF is late it still could mean i could be pregnant. He doesn't get the whole symptoms and dpo thing!
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September 21st, 2011, 07:20 AM
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Ahh... Good luck hun. Keep ur head up. Hopefully that BFP will show up soon!
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September 21st, 2011, 10:29 AM
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September 21st, 2011, 10:31 AM
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Nothing to report. Still no sign of AF and I got another BFN this morning
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September 21st, 2011, 10:37 AM
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I am sorry. I think that is one of the hardest parts about TTC, when you feel stuck in-between two possibilities with no end in sight. If possible take it out of your mind for a bit and give it a couple of days. The body can do weird things during times of stress and play mean jokes on us. Best of luck hon!
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September 21st, 2011, 07:12 PM
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hi its so hard when ttc and dont know when ovulating!! i dont understand how it works and iv been trying a full year and still nothing
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September 21st, 2011, 08:30 PM
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i completely understand!! it is very difficult for me too. My husband already has two children so for him, it is not as sensitive when I don't get pregnant. It feels like we are trying sooooo hard and getting no where!! just remember that it takes time and try not to get to frustrated because from what I am told stress can effect your ability get pregnant as well. Good luck to you!!!
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September 22nd, 2011, 06:50 AM
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So sorry, Pretty!!! Hope today brings some news one way or the other. Thinking about you!
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