Was so upset last night now I'm just confused (Update in post #12)

BabyX · #1 February 1st, 2012, 09:59 PM

I have been so chilled out this cycle. I realized that I was eating myself up w/ anxiety. I found a way to chill myself out. Guess what I have been so chill, and the only night that I feel matters (based on CM) my DH had an awful day at work!!!!!!!! He doesn't have it in him to do anything. I tried to encourage him, but nothing worked. Needless to say unless by some miracle I will not be joining the October DDC b/c I am pretty sure I Oed tonight or will early tomorrow. The last time we BD was Monday Jan. 30th.

Despite my "whatever" I really wanted to be in the October DDC. The most awesome dates I know happen(ed) in October. I kissed my DH for the first time in October we were married on that anniversary of October 1st, my parent's anniversary is in October, and I was born in October....oh and here in Texas the best weather is in October.

I guess that will not be happening this month unless the swimmers are good ones. Super sad and full of self pity tonight. Right now I am just angry at the world!!!!!!

swtneka · #2 February 1st, 2012, 10:58 PM

I'm so sorry maybe "surprise" dh in the morning when he is all rested up. There is time. I believe the egg float around for bout 12 hours after it releases. Gl I hope u get in that oct ddc

bryan and nina · #3 February 2nd, 2012, 02:55 AM

Sonica's right. Try to get him in the mood this am.
I am sorry things didnt work out like you had planned, but you would be surprised by how long swimmers can make it! I am proof of that; my m/c pregnancy we only dtd like 2 days after af left (so maybe cd 7) and somehow I got pregnant!!

That means they must have made it at LEAST a week, if not longer... So there is hope!

Butterbear · #4 February 2nd, 2012, 07:05 AM

I agree with Sonica and Nina- there is still hope if you can get him in the mood today, and even if not, there's still a chance. I understand how you are feeling though.

Hope today is a better day.

Diamond2009 · #5 February 2nd, 2012, 07:08 AM

I agree...get out some sexy lingerie and do something estra to get him in the mood. Good Luck

mclay12 · #6 February 2nd, 2012, 07:13 AM

I agree with the other ladies...spice it up today...lights and candles and sexy lingere!

ninja_mommy · #7 February 2nd, 2012, 07:17 AM

You've still got a shot!

BabyX · #8 February 2nd, 2012, 08:21 AM

Well attacking DH this morning would have been a good idea....if I had thought of it. I didn't read your wonderful suggestion until after DH had already gone.

Nina - Thanks for the encouragement. Maybe the swimmers from Monday were still hanging around.

Oh and thanks everyone for the virtual hugs. I really needed that.

MoonAngel702 · #9 February 2nd, 2012, 11:03 AM

Well, maybe you haven't quite missed it yet! Where exactly are you in your cycle? Did your CM dry up today? Get some BDing in tonight!!! FX'ed for you!

MAS1313 · #10 February 2nd, 2012, 11:11 AM

According to the Fertility Friend Video's I watched today it said the little swimmers can make it for close to 1 week

FX'd for you

Kissthegirl · #11 February 2nd, 2012, 11:19 AM

FXed for you! 3-4 days time in "swimmers world" is not a long time at all! Hope one holds on tight!!!

BabyX · #12 February 2nd, 2012, 11:43 AM

Now I am just soo confused. I tried something new this cycle, B6. I just started taking it several days ago. Based on my past cycles I would have thought that my CM would have dried up today. I didn't have any EWCM this morning, but about an hour or so after I took my dose of B6 I noticed that I have EWCM again. I don't know if the B6 will continue to cause EWCM all of the time, or maybe I haven't Oed yet????? All I know to do at this point is to try to go back to the mentality I had before last night....just let it roll. This month will just kind of be a throw away as far as "actively" TTC. On about February 14th or 15th when AF is due I guess I'll find out.

BabyX · #13 February 2nd, 2012, 11:51 AM

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Originally Posted by MoonAngel702

Well, maybe you haven't quite missed it yet! Where exactly are you in your cycle? Did your CM dry up today? Get some BDing in tonight!!! FX'ed for you!

I'm on CD 16 today. I'm not sure about the CM thing at this point.