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It’s been over a month since I’ve posted, but was getting stressed and depressed with all my BFNs month after month, so I took some time off the boards (still peeking here and there) to relax.
I’m so excited and happy to come back and see so many BFPs!!! So much baby dust going around!!
A little recap on me…my DH and I have one DS who is 14yo and in March 2011 decided to TTC #2, so it’s been almost a year for us, there were times during the fertile period we were unable to be together, though. I was keeping track of the actual cycles we were together but lost track and gave up after #7, I think.
DH was offered a great opportunity to advance in his job, but requires him to work in another state for almost a year. So since January we’ve lived mostly apart, but have managed to travel to see each other every other weekend and a couple of those weekends were during the “right time” to TTC, still BFN though.
Anyway, with our ages, me 38 and DH 40 and having to travel it’s making TTC #2 a whole lot harder, complicated and frustrating than with DS!! He was conceived within two weeks after stopping BC’s!
We’ve decided that it’s time to seek help so we have an appointment with a RE in a couple of weeks. We were already advised that at this appointment DH will get a SA and I’ll get an ultrasound and depending on my CD blood work. I’m anxious and scared!
Sorry…this is longer than I intended….look forward to sharing our TTC journeys together. Hoping and praying it will be a short journey to the DDC!!!
Me 39 DH 41 with an amazing 15yo DS
TTC #2 NTNP starting in 2009
actively TTC (BBT and OPKs) 2011
natural BFP Feb 2012, ending in mmc Apr with d&c in May
IVF Sep 2012, 4 eggs retrieved, 2 mature, 1 fertilized, but showed abnormal
growth, so not suitable for transfer
Nov 2012 IVF take 2 = 3 embryos but due to concerns with lining unable to transfer
Jan 2013 endometrial biopsy = normal
FEB BCP cycle
Mar 21 – transferred 2 beautiful embryos, but unfortunately BFN