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February 10th, 2012, 03:59 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Ontario, Canada
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Well, just as I feared, I woke up this morning with a temp drop, and I'm pretty sure the first day of AF. She showed so early this cycle...was not expecting her for another few days. Perhaps time to start pumping some B6 and B12!
I'm feeling so frustrated with my body and so down this morning. Partially because of AF showing, and partially because of DHs lack of compassion. They just don't understand how tough it is for us. It's a lot of work for it all to mean nothing in the end. Will fill you in more on this story later....running late this AM for work!
Thanks for listening..... Phack!!!!!!!
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Cycle #1-7 NTNP (all BFN's)
Cycle #8 TTC - BFN
Cycle #9 TTC with Pre-seed and softcups - BFN
Cycle #10 - TTC with pre-seed - BFN
Cycle #11 - TTC - Praying for a Christmas baby!
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February 10th, 2012, 04:45 AM
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Lauren *Expecting #1!*
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Join Date: Oct 2011
Location: Arkansas
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Noooo!! I'm so sorry shanna. I think they just don't fully understand bc they aren't to ones experiencing any symptoms or charting or using opks. Even if they are involved they aren't physically doing all those things. I wish they did even one cycle so they could deal with that and see how they felt!!! Well I hope next cycle is it for you!
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Beta #2: 1787 & Progesterone: 13.5 @ 21dpo
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February 10th, 2012, 04:54 AM
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2012
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So sorry. Ttc is such an emotional roller coaster.
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February 10th, 2012, 05:02 AM
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formerly Burl Mama x 4
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Join Date: Jan 2012
Location: Louisiana
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Sorry about that. I know my DH was seeming pretty insensitive about this until we talked. It was just really hard for him to see me putting everything I had into TTC and then being disappointed when I wasn't pregnant.
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February 10th, 2012, 05:23 AM
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Lindsey, pregnant w/ #2!
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Join Date: May 2008
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So sorry  I always tell DH it's like a double whammy. Finding out you aren't pregnant and then being punished with PMS and a week of bleeding. He still doesn't really get it though.
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February 10th, 2012, 05:35 AM
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Expecting #1
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Join Date: Nov 2011
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I'm sorry hun, I hope you make it into the November DDC.
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February 10th, 2012, 05:45 AM
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TTC our first!
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Join Date: Oct 2011
Location: Ohio
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Sorry Shanna that the stupid witch arrived!  We can be cycle buddies next month and hopefully we'll get our BFPs together too! KUP about DH, we're all here for you!
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February 10th, 2012, 07:15 AM
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2011
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Sorry about AF! :hugs: we are here for you!!
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February 10th, 2012, 07:40 AM
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TTC #2
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Join Date: Nov 2011
Location: Texas
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I'm sorry that the witch showed Shanna, and that DHs just don't get it.
Remember that we love you though.
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February 10th, 2012, 09:13 AM
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TTC #1
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Join Date: Jan 2012
Location: NM
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I'm sorry the witch showed. My DH doesn't understand it either. He says there is no need for me to cry every month over it, but I don't even drink alcohol or caffeine all month, plus I eat more veggies for me snacks than anything else.
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February 10th, 2012, 09:36 AM
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Baby #1 on board!
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Join Date: Jan 2012
Location: IA
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I'm sorry she showed...I had some scant spotting this AM also. I'm crossing my fingers and hoping it's late IB but I could be right there with you having and early AF. I'll be thinking about you and if I don't get my BFP I hope were cycle buddies and in the Nov. DDC next month
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February 10th, 2012, 09:57 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Apr 2010
Location: Massachusetts, USA
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Crap...I'm really sorry  . The men just don't get how tough this is month after month. I'm hoping to start up the BFP bus for the November DDC and hope we're all on it!
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February 10th, 2012, 10:13 AM
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praying for our rainbow
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Join Date: Sep 2010
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Awwww I am so sorry the AF found you this morning. Hopefully you will be in the Nov DDC!
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February 10th, 2012, 10:45 AM
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2011
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So sorry!!!! (((hugs)))
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February 10th, 2012, 01:20 PM
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TTC #1
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Join Date: Feb 2012
Location: Manitoba, Canada
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Sorry to hear, I was hoping AF wouldn't show up for you!
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February 10th, 2012, 05:49 PM
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TTC #1
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Join Date: Jul 2011
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Sorry to hear the bad news
Best of luck next month!
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February 10th, 2012, 06:07 PM
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Happily Married & TTC #1
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Join Date: Mar 2011
Location: you're the only TEN I SEE. :)
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I'm sorry Shanna.  I would definitely look into B6; it's helped so many ladies with their LP!
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February 10th, 2012, 09:50 PM
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TTC#1
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Join Date: Jan 2011
Posts: 1,271
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Ack, stupid AF!
It can be frustrating trying to get DHs to see TTC from our point of view. Even when they try really hard, they just have a different way of thinking. It isn't bad, but it sure doesn't feel like they "get it" for us!
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February 11th, 2012, 05:47 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Ontario, Canada
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Well I am totally stumped with my body. I feel like AF is going to show anytime, have spotting on and off (mainly after going #2). But my temp was back up this morning?!? And the bleeding isn't full AF yet I don't think. For sure more than the IB I had last time....I just don't know! Lol
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Thanks to Vicki for my gorgeous siggy!

Cycle #1-7 NTNP (all BFN's)
Cycle #8 TTC - BFN
Cycle #9 TTC with Pre-seed and softcups - BFN
Cycle #10 - TTC with pre-seed - BFN
Cycle #11 - TTC - Praying for a Christmas baby!
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February 11th, 2012, 09:44 AM
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Oct 2011
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I see the temp spiked up again, hopefully that's a great sign and the spotting was implantation along with the dip, they also say early preggo symptoms can get confused with AF symptoms, so I definately wouldn't give up hope...FX that AF stays away and you'll have your BPF in a day or so!!!
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