[mialee]

I love wine.

I have been stressed with all this ttc stuff. I have a nasty headache for days and I seriously want to relax.

How horrible would it be for me to have a glass of wine tonight.

[Grace]

Really horrible!!! Just kidding, have a glass of wine. Actually I hear red wine helps with implantation .

But really most say drink til it's pink ( in moderation) We never know how long it will take to actually get pg, so we also need to live our lives and enjoy little things here and there to stay sane. I enjoy wine and Champaign occasionally.

[*treefrog*]

Just my two cents...Have your glass of wine....some docs recommend a glass of wine for some mama's throughout pregnancy. Even on the off chance a little one has implanted by 7 DPO (which chances are it is JUST implanting or soon to implant) the placenta has not formed yet...thus baby is safe from the wine Stress can sometimes do more damage than that one little glass of wine! ENJOY!!!!

[LaceyMay2630]

I agree! Go ahead and enjoy a glass of wine, we all need to relax every now and then I've even heard midwives tell their patients who are in labor to have a quick glass to relax themselves so that they can try and sleep through contractions.

[mialee]

thanks

My wine has actually been poured already and i feel less tense after a few sips.

[Aillidh]

Definitely enjoy that glass of wine

[lunaverde]

a glass of wine once in awhile is perfectly okay while TTC, don't listen to fertility friend.

Obviously, don't overdo it, but trust me when I say I did far worse before I found out I was pregnant with my DD, she is my only unplanned child and I found out when I was about 5 weeks. She is perfect, though I spent nine months worrying about whether I messed her up because of my own stupidity. But I didn't know I was pg when I was doing those things and as soon as I found out I was pg, I cut all my bad habits out.

I'm not endorsing drinking or doing drugs while TTC or being pregnant, just so we're clear.

[mal91011]

I had quit all drinking but now that I'm starting my fourth cycle I said F that!! I don't drink during the 2ww but I will enjoy a drink here and there!!