[wishing]

My vent.


DH didnt put in effort for mothers day and I was really hurt and sad. We got into a big fight and things just took a horrible turn. I know that its the clomid, I am not myself on it, I over react and I blow up. Things I dont do normally. We fight and bicker but I dont usually get nasty.

Well I ended up telling him horrible things and ending the marriage. Changed my facebook status and slammed the door in his mother face when she showed up. Honestly I dont know how I lost control....ugg.

He was in the wrong for most of it. It was the mothers day stuff, a lie I caught him in, and his overall lack of maturity with money. But I really regreat telling him I want a divorce and changing facebook status. I dont normally like the drama and dont tell people my personal stuff (well those that know me...lol...alll is a go on forums...lol)

Now I dont know what to do because if I try talking to him he will think it was all the meds and he did nothing wrong.

OHHH cant wait til the clomid is out of my system!!!!!

[Ravado]

I am sorry you had such a bad mothers day. Any chance you could just tell him what you did here? That you are sorry you over reacted and the meds are making you a little over emotional but that x, y and z hurt your feelings. Perhaps if you can own up to your part but explain the rational feelings behind it you can smooth things over while still bringing the items that are bothering you to the table in a hopefully more productive conversation.

[Keshlia0866]

I'm sorry that happened. I understand your frustrations. I have never been on clomid... although I think I may need to get on it... but I have had issues with DH. The clomid probably just made a festering situtation worse. Hopefully you will be able to resolve the issue soon. Sorry... Sucks having issues with DH.

[LoriLou35]

You'll probably just have to suck it up and talk to him. Once you get the lines of communication flowing you can address other issues, but opening those lines is first and foremost.

[sarah*]

ditto the others have you tried telling him it was the medication? i hope he understands x

[Wishinfor2ndblessing]

*Lurking....

I would blow up and get really angry, and emotional when I was taking clomid... I ended up telling my DH that I realize that the medication is making me more emotional than normal, however when you did x,y,and z it really hurt me and made me think a,b and c which is why I reacted the way I did. DH realized that he really hurt me and what he does was wrong. Then we both apologized to each other, and DH was more understanding about how the clomid was reacting with me.

GL I hope everything works itself out. Hang in there hun. I know its hard, but its so worth it.

[MAS1313]

Originally Posted by Wishinfor2ndblessing

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I ended up telling my DH that I realize that the medication is making me more emotional than normal, however when you did x,y,and z it really hurt me and made me think a,b and c which is why I reacted the way I did. DH realized that he really hurt me and what he does was wrong. Then we both apologized to each other, and DH was more understanding about how the clomid was reacting with me.

I agree with the other girls and think Raina has a good point.

This is my first month on Comid and I have noticed I have become "extra" emotional and short. I cried yesterday over my DH watering the plants for his mom for Mother's Day before we brought them in her house....b/c I wanted her to see them first. LOL. I told him I am an emotional wreck and I was sorry.

I hope things get better hun!

[wishing]

Thanks all. I havent had a chance to actually talk to DH yet as he works overnights and has been sleeping. He has woken for a few minutes and I just lied down and watched a movie beside him while on computer so that we could at least be close and he could see that I am still here. He has reached out to hug a few times so hopefully thats a start. I will try to talk to him before he goes to work but I dont want to wake him and talk when he is exhausted and I am emotional.

[ninja_mommy]

The others gave some good advice. I am kind of nervous to start clomid this next cycle because of that. Good luck patching things up.

[FishermansWife4]

I pray you and your DH work everything out.