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August 10th, 2012, 12:19 PM
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We were just in bed.... randomly he asked if I had pissed on my stick and I said yes a neg, he asked how my temps were.... I said no signs... then we played a bit and I felt like he was about to finish later on..... so I asked him if he nearly did....


He said yes sweetheart but I would be a waste and I can't for days so I thought I would wait until close to the time. I stopped by giving you more pleasure and he fell asleep. We wilk try tomorrow.

THIS IS WHY WE CAN'T PLAN SEX.

I took my afternoon opk and it's almost positive. If he had finished today it could have been in the fertile period possibly.

I love him so much and cried for him because he wants this as much as me but now his groin is hurting.

I wish wish wish we could just bd on command, ttc would be so much easier without that hurdle, then we could concentrate on other factors.

Now I have to hope we can finish in the next couple of days..... I'll show my opk.... xxxx
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August 10th, 2012, 12:28 PM
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August 10th, 2012, 12:29 PM
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here's my opk
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August 10th, 2012, 12:32 PM
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Praying you get to catch your eggie
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August 10th, 2012, 12:35 PM
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Thankyou. I don't pray since a prayed the brown discharge want losing the baby but I really do value others doing it in my honor. X
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August 10th, 2012, 12:37 PM
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Aww, he's so thoughtful. Well, there's always tomorrow morning!
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August 10th, 2012, 12:44 PM
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We can't do morning. Customers.... got to be tomorrow early evening. X
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August 10th, 2012, 12:45 PM
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Can you do like middle of the night?
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August 10th, 2012, 12:46 PM
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August 10th, 2012, 01:49 PM
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We work non stop. He would be much too tired in the middle of the night. That's why we do day sex. We work and play at the and time. Lol.

I just hope he can manage tomorrow but I.bet he can't as he will have it in his head that were ovulating soon.
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August 10th, 2012, 02:12 PM
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I know how it is, dear. That's why I say the first year that we were ttc, was really NTNP because DH was too tired during the week because of work. I cried a few times because I knew it wouldn't happen.
The past couple months though, he actually wants to try to shoot for my fertile time. We were unsuccessful last cycle.
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August 11th, 2012, 05:00 AM
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another almost positive. May get the chance to try and finish today, another customer has just booked in but if not today then tomorrow. I don't want to put him under too much pressure.

I'll do another opk this afternoon.
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August 11th, 2012, 08:30 AM
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Well no chance today.... more customers, a trade order being picked up tonight and I'm frustrated an pissed off totally.
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August 11th, 2012, 09:18 AM
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oh no... Im sorry maybe try and sneak it in. (Punn intended.)
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August 11th, 2012, 09:23 AM
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I really hope you can over come this hurdle makes me sad for the both of you keeping my fingers crossed
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August 11th, 2012, 09:43 AM
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we can't sneak anything in, with the delayed ejaculation it's a 2 hour session minimum.

I'm starting to give up. Not a positive opk yet but even if I oed in 2 days this would still give me hope....

I'm just so pissed of right now, not sad or lost... Just angry.

And then he has to make a joke out of it. Walking past the bed he says... we should be playing on there right now not catching fish.

I have him the look that would kill.......

I'm angry we can't bd on command, all I want is hope... a 2ww that's not just hoping for a long lp.
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August 11th, 2012, 09:56 AM
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Oh my Im sorry honey I know your frustrated and I would feel the same. I was only offering hope of maybe being able to get in a BD session before O which there is always hope.
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August 11th, 2012, 10:23 AM
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I'm sorry I hope you two can make it work. GL & fx
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August 11th, 2012, 10:35 AM
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Thanks. I'm sorry for being tetchy.

Just took my opk and it looks less of a line then their was so still no positive so maybe that's a good sign and we will see what tomorrow brings.
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