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Just got a call from the early pregnancy unit to say the 6 months since losing the baby has gone and I am no longer under there care. They asked if I had any more questions and I said no. I'm actively ttc now.
Guess what she said.
You don't need to try.
It happened when you didn't try so it will happen again in no time I'm sure.
I had to bite my tongue.
She knows because she was the counsellor discussing my options as I was so late. She knew I was ttc my dd for over 2 years and she's knows I've been ttc2 on and off since dd.
JUST BECAUSE IT HAPPENED DOESN'T MEAN I WON'T HAVE TO WAIT AGAIN.
I don't understand why they can't use common sense with the math.
Charlie born18th July 8lb8oz 50cm
TTC for 2 years. I never gave up thanks to the girls of TTC
I think "the professionals" think telling us things like this will perk our spirits up. But they arent the ones dealing with ttc on a daily basis amd dealing with the stresses that come with it. It is VERY HARD TTC. Good luck. i really hope you get your BFP soon. You deserve it. You are a great person.
When I had my MC the woman told me that it wasn't meant to be and that something would have been wrong with the baby most likely and that this is natures way of preventing that - or something to that effect.
I was so mad because that didn't mean that it hurt any less. Nature can be cruel sometimes. I guess in a strange way it did help me some though. I think though when people are in that type of situation they just want a hug and an "I'm so sorry" and nothing more.
Mindy & Josh Mama to 3 beautiful girls!
DD - Maya (11), DD - Sophia (7), & DD - Jane (0)
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