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February 5th, 2013, 04:48 PM
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For some unknown reason I want to DTD the most a few days after the arrives, but before she leaves. I have had issues for the last couple of years because most of the time I have no desire. However I still want DH to be happy and I know its not his fault my lack of desire... He tries really hard but the only time I actually want it he wouldn't touch me with a 9 foot pole.

Anyone else have this issue??
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February 5th, 2013, 05:41 PM
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YES!!! I always seem to be "erotically charged" during AF... I personally think it is gross for me to do it then (I don't care if others do it, I just have always had particularly heavy AF) BUT I have a husband who doesn't care so if I am feeling weak and he can convince me not to be grossed out by it or do it in the shower, we have done it a few times that way.
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February 5th, 2013, 06:16 PM
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Mine is heavy as well both DH and I are both grossed out.
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February 5th, 2013, 06:21 PM
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Are you getting plenty of vitamins?? That can definitely contribute to not feeling in the mood.
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February 5th, 2013, 07:15 PM
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I am totally in the mood right before and during my visit from the I usually can't really control myself and DH is fine with doing it in the shower to help cut down on some of the mess. I'm just grateful that he will help indulge me when I am so darn horny and bob isn't cutting it.
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February 5th, 2013, 08:04 PM
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My DH doesn't mind DTD while the is here….. we either do it in the shower or I tell him not to look when we're done, LOL. I wouldn't do it on a heavy flow day - but when I know it won't be too messy, I'm all for it
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February 5th, 2013, 10:20 PM
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I have this problem all the time. So long as I am not super crampy or heavy it's not a big deal. We usually end up dtd before AF is over with when it is down to the end. Never on day one though. or two for that matter.
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February 5th, 2013, 11:33 PM
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Eh, lay a towel down and jump in the shower after you'll be right! I used to be pretty squicked out when we were younger (If I think back I get a horrific flashback to one time, I swear my memory plays it out like a bad and overenthusiastic slasher film scene...) but now not so much. It's only a bit of blood

Plus it's good for cramps too!
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February 6th, 2013, 06:41 AM
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Elissa, your post just made my day

DH does not mind if AF is around or not. We usually do it in the shower or like Elissa said, get dirty and then jump in the shower to clean up.
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February 6th, 2013, 07:13 AM
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I have gotten SO to come around to the idea. I get in the mood too much while AF is here. We usually use the shower or a towel on the bed. And avoid me being on top because that makes the mess worse.
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February 6th, 2013, 07:31 AM
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yes yes! Dh knows I get all kinds of excited when the arrives! lol My flow usually is only really heavy for 1/5 days, and he's usually good with putting a towel down or getting hot n heavy in the shower. It's hard for me too, I don't usually feel much in the mood to bd a few days later when I get ready to O, so it feels kind of forced sometimes :/ But I know it will totally be worth it when we get that bfp! Good luck!
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